Day 7

Day 7

1. Continue 1st Day Task being Magic Tree - Speak only when spoken too.

2. Continue 2nd Day Not buying anything new into your house - when you already have them at home.

3. Continue 3rd Day Don't Eat when your nose is hungry - Eat when your body is hungry

4. Continue 4th Day Always be on the move not giving the mind to speak anything to you or manipulate you. 

5. Continue 5th Day Creating only positive Thought for people you see and hear.

6. Continue 6th Day Your Heart and Mind is your Airport, take responsibility of what you allow inside.

7. Power to Say "NO" & "YES"

Taking care of yourself is one big responsibilities: Shower, brushing Teeth, Wash face, Wash underarm, Wash up after go toilet, clean after yourself, comb your hair, cut long nails, make sure body smell good, underarm smell good, make sure there is no eye poop 😳🤣🙈, Dress well before leave the house, Mouth should smell good 🫣😆🙊, so many details. 

We were taught from small to take care of self which have so many details but we were not paying much attention cause we were more focus on seeing the world for the first time, want to run and play outside see everything, experience everything, don't want to miss out on anything all seem so interesting. But isn't taking care of self count as interesting how did we go from exciting to boring or complaining in just taking care of self. 

My Experience:

This morning when I ask son did you brush your teeth his reply was yes he was going to blow the air so I could smell his breath I wanted to see his teeth and found out it wasn't clean so i told him to go brush again he was about too when father told him to come and pull him up. Son fall down to the ground and say whiningly "Oh so many thing to do" My reply was "You have the right to say no" he choose to refuse his father request and when to brush his teeth. 

If he was telling the truth that he did brush his teeth he would have refuse my request and go give his father attention. 

This fresh incident got me thinking why do we submit to other request without being true to ourselves first. When you do things for other willingly the doing become fun and exciting like play, but when doing things not willingly it become like a burden to carry which take the fun out of everything. But then again the vision of the past life show that we were once slaves we were program to serve others first then self. I found a way out of this pattern of slavery mindset by practicing self talk before doing anything task given by other, order given by other, request given by others, being force to do the work etc.. 

When ever anyone ask or order me to do something within that very moment I have self-talk 

Mind: "You have to do it"

Heart: "Do you want to do it"

Me: Yes I can do it but not now 

Me asking the person who ask me to do something: "When do you need it to be done"

Mind: "You still haven't finish your work, are you going to help them first"

Heart: "You can learn this new skill that will benefit you later, so do it for yourself improvement"

Me: I will go with the heart point of view 

My reply to the person who request help: "Once I finished with my work I start with your work can you be patience"

Sometime the help they need could be like urgent that I can't refuse even if I wanted to say no , I would always have self talk before even start the work. 

Cause you see our mind is always observing our action, intention in what we are doing for anyone. When ever you are going to do something "FOR ANYONE" change that mindset into "AM DOING IT FOR ME" Why you may ask this practice is called self mastery power of not being slave to anyone at all for the future or next life or your new generation kids.

You will become one powerful human being whose Spirit can't be broken by others cause you have chosen to LISTEN to both of your Mind & Heart into consideration and made decision on your own without outside influence. You have taken on responsibilities of all your doing. 

Benefit you will experience: Self Confidence, Art of knowing how to take care of yourself better and take care of the people as well.