Wedding

Wedding is the time of two couple that have fall in love and want to share they love story with people around them. They have a vision how they wedding party should be dance, dress, decoration and pictures. Falling love is out of the picture cause everyone focus on the picture perfect. If they didn't have audience then not needed picture perfect casual all are relax having a good time and both loving couple could relax as well. 

Relative that come to party all dress up to impress other people and picture should come out perfect forgetting we are they to bless the newly wed couples. Wearing uncomfortable shoes, dress just so to make other people like us. What has wedding party comes to, in the end people will criticise others heights, figure, limited seatings, foods and on top paid lots of money for the party but instead of getting blessing People talk behind they back. Full of fake loving people if we only focus more on sharing love and let people wear they casual clothes not needed competition on best looking fashion clothes. 

Peer's pressure is the cause of provoking our demon and taking it out on our love onces. 

Seed of Peace If we plant a positive, clean seed of thought and concentrate on it, we give it energy, like the sun gives to a seed in the earth. And as the seed in the earth awakens, stirs and begins to grow, the thoughts on which we concentrate awaken, stir and begin to grow. So let us sow positive thoughts. Each morning before we begin the journey of the day let us sit still, in silence, and sow the seed of peace. Peace is harmony and balance. Peace is freedom from the burden of negativity and wastefulness. Let peace find its home within us. Peace is our original strength, our eternal tranquility of being

Nurture Nature

Many a philosophical debate arrives at the bottom line - are we naturally the way we are or is it nurtured? Are we all pure in heart, but blinded by the impurities of the world? Are we all enlightened souls who have simply succumbed to illusion?

Most of us have an intuitive response which seems to acknowledge that there is goodness in everyone, it's simply sometimes hard to see. As we look at ourselves maybe we even find it hard to see the good in ourselves. Perhaps we've been taught to see only the dark, the negative. Perhaps we grew up with others whose vision always landed on the negative. But who would choose to live in the darkness? Who would choose to be a negative person? Who would choose pessimism? Probably very, very few, if only we could see the choice. That's why it is essential you find the good, however small within yourself, tend to it, nurture it, nourish it - just as you would the plants in your garden.

When you focus on the good, the positive within yourself, you give it life, you give it permission to grow and to be restored to your nature. The good has been there all along, simply out of your inner sight, out of your awareness. Some say 'get a life' but this is how to give a life. This is how to give life back to yourself! Or do you prefer to live in the dark

Normal or Abnormal

This is normal that what people around me keep saying.

Normal

1. Blaming

      Blame someone for our own unhappiness or sadness or someone didn't do the task.

2. Fighting 

      Fine false in somebody so that can take out anger to the other people to realise frustrated. 

3. Talk about the third person

       Talk about someone else that is not our business to tell or it doesn't help us or improve our life for the better.

4. What will people say or think

        Care for society that never live with us, help us in our work, but just giving opinion how we should act or behave, demand respect, do as u are told and never walk out of line.

5. Wanting and Expectation

       Didnt full fill Expectation will get judgement, blackmail, comparing, controlling, demanding and abusive.

6. Finding peace outside and focus on bad outcome in life.

7. Practice wanting love, controlling others and do sewa with expectation.

8. Charge battery with watching news, social media, want update information of others and watch drama, violence, abusive, politics, etc. 

Abnormal

1. Take responsibility of they own mistake

2. Agree to disagree (Letting go and forget)

3. Dont care about information of others

4. Doing out of love and leave the rest.

5. Accept people as they are no need to change.

6. Have inner peace and optimistic with life.

7. Practice self-love, self-control, sewa with pure intension. 

8. Charge battery with Meditation everyday.

Is your life Normal or Abnormal ?

Trust Yourself

Trust Yourself

 Parenting (Part 19)

The age of gurus is coming to an end, it's no longer appropriate for us to turn to priests, seers and other external guides for advice about what to do, or to put others on pedestals and project our wisdom on to them. It is time to trust our own inner guidance, our deep self. Trust the fleeting inner impression which most of us ignore or dismiss. If we trust our inner wisdom, we know everything we need to know. To activate the inner wisdom is by meditation on empty stomach early morning and to be able to control your inner thoughts best time meditation is at 3am with this we will intuitively know what we need to do next, in any area of our lives. When we trust ourselves, life becomes far more magical. 

If we take a leap of faith following our hearts, 'knowing' it is the right step to take the Universe says "Yes, Yes, Yes!" If we are willing to let go and to change, to close one door before the next door opens. We have to live in 'the void' for a while unsure of our next steps, giving ourselves lots of space and being-time, learning to live with our uncertainty. We often know only what our next step will be so, we must be willing to take one step at a time, trusting that further guidance will follow. But the rewards that come from trusting our inner guidance can be truly amazing. 

I trust my inner voice.

Listen to the Voice of Love 👂❤

Parenting (Part 18)

Listen to the Voice of Love, Not Fear

In every situation, we can listen to the voice of love or the voice of fear. The voice of love, the voice of our deep self, connects us with the greater reality of Oneness. It knows that everything 'out there' is an aspect of the self, and that the universe is friendly and loving. It is the 'still small voice within'. It encourages us to grow, to expand, to reach out, to believe in miracles, to follow our Dreams. (The world may be filled with ego-selves, it can also warn us about potential dangers, ensuring we are not in the wrong place at the wrong time.)

Don't squash your fears down, since whatever we resist persists. Become aware of your fears without identifying with them - and send love to that fearful part of yourself. When you have fearful thought or slip into a 'thought attack', smile and call light to yourself - and choose loving, positive thoughts instead.

Visualize what you're afraid of and see yourself coping with it. That way, you won't have to make it happen!

Recognize that it has already happened. Many fears such as that of dying in childbirth, losing a child or partner, going blind, falling from a great height, losing your house in a fire - date back to past lifetimes. Relax and ask your deep self to show you what happened in that other lifetime; then reassure yourself that this lifetime is different, and your fear belongs to the past.

Imagine releasing fear and doubt in long slow out breaths, while breathing in the light of love and trust with each breath. Or imagine fear and doubt draining away each time you pull out the plug in your bath.

Anything which lifts your energy, raises your spirits, relaxes or inspires you will help you listen to the voice of love. Simply ask yourself: 'What is the voice of fear telling me in this situation? And What does the voice of love have to say?

Cherish Yourself

Parenting (Part 17)

Cherish Yourself - Just as you are

Our Inner child is constantly wounded in childhood. Our parents, teachers and guardians do their best, but they are only human and cannot provide Unconditional Love. Most of us grew up learned & still believing that we only get love and approval if we do as we're told or be good which made us doubt ourselves and try even harder to get love/approval from others. 

The Inner child cannot reason for itself - that is the job of the ego-self - so it simply accepts toxic beliefs as if they were literally true and stores them as information. "My eyes are brown, I have beautiful hair and I'm fat." It then goes on to prove such statements are true - sometimes throughout our lives!

There is nothing wrong with you - apart perhaps from some false, toxic beliefs about yourself and life, which can be released. 

Shame can also be healed by connecting with our inner wisdom. Our higher Self loves us Unconditionally. Our task is to offer unconditional love to our inner child and body - our natural self - in the same way. This means never criticizing or judging ourselves, correcting any toxic beliefs from childhood, cherishing ourselves: allowing ourselves to live in Soft Time, to love, laugh and be merry.

When we love and accept ourselves as we are our wounds are healed. If you feel like challenge to love yourself right now. Pretend! If you did really love yourself, What would change?

How would you think, feel or behave differently?

Aim not to be perfect, but to be wholly myself.

Forgive Yourself

Parenting (Part 16)

Forgive Yourself

If we feel ashamed or guilty, it can block the channel to our higher self - so it is high-priority to clear shame and guilt from our emotional body by making amends, then let it go.

If you sit quietly, ask your inner child what it feels guilty about -  you might be amazed at how much emotional baggage you are carrying! 

Releasing shame and guilt is a four-stage process:

1. Become aware of what you feel guilty about, and let go of shame or guilt by reassuring your inner child that enjoying yourself, relaxing or being human are not reason to feel bad!

2. Forgive yourself for any harmful or hurtful behaviour. This mean realising that we are always doing the best we can. 

3. Make amends, if it is appropriate. Perhaps you need to talk about it with the other person, or apologize, or replace what you broke or forget to return, or what ever. Or if you've lost touch, or the person is dead, or it feels ridiculous to bring it up, you might imagine talking to them. Or choose some joyful way of making amends that feels right to you, such as making an anonymous donation to charity, or secretly paying for a stranger's lunch in a cafe. 

4. Let it go! It is in the past, so don't hang on to it any longer. There is a Buddhist story of two monks who come to a river. A woman is waiting on the riverbank, and ask the monks if they will kindly carry her across the river. One monk immediately does so - and they walk on. The other monk is astonished, since monks are not supposed to touch women and he is still thinking about it the next day, when he asks his friend how he could have done such a thing. The monk replies, "I put the women down at the far side of the river. You are still carrying her now". Guilt makes us cling to an event long after it should be dead and buried. Put it down!

Give and Receive Love

Parenting (Part 15)

Give and Receive Love

Love begins and ends with the Self, that we cannot Love others unless we first love ourselves. Many people believe that they will love themselves once someone else loves them first but unless we are a source of Love, we cannot attract loving relationship. 

Self-love gives us the strength to be vulnerable, to drop our defences, to reveal our own truth - knowing that we have nothing to hide, no need to pretend. 

As we love and accept ourselves as we are, we become more loving and giving, and genuinely enjoy others company. Other people feel relaxed and 'Safe' with us, and respond by being more open and honest - so we naturally develop good friends and loving relationships.

Self-Love mean we give love freely, without expecting anything in return - a spontaneous hug, an unexpected bunch of flowers, a warm smile for a stranger, a loving note in a child's lunch box, an offer for help to a friend in need, a cheque to a charity which has touched your heart, or simply saying 'I Love You'.

True Love always feels good. It makes our heart sing and our spirit dance. It nourishes our soul, but to do this, love has to flow freely in both directions.

Open your Heart

Part 14

Open your Heart

Whenever we speak from our heart rather than our head we speak from unconditional Love and wisdom we open ourselves to miracles. Love transforms everything. 

Whatever the problem, in any kind of relationship, opening your heart almost always changes how you approach the situation and that affects how others respond. When you stop taking it personally, and look at it with an open heart, what do you see? What would your heart say in this situation?

Opening your heart also allows us to listen - really listen to the other person. 

Most of the time, our head are so full of thoughts about what the other person is saying, or how we feel about it, or what we're going to say next, that we're not really listening at all.

Opening your heart means that your thoughts are still, and you feel loving, calm and fully present. Now - what is the other person saying?

Let go of your Addictions

Part 13

Let go of your Addictions

We live in an addictive society - that is, a society which encourage us to look outside the Self for happiness and fulfillment (rather like searching for God in all the wrong places). We as parent also passing this teaching on to our children. Most of us have at least on addictive way of coping with life: perhaps overworking, alcohol, drugs, overeating, dieting, shopping, TV-watching, busyness, smoking, exercise or staring at a computer screen. (stuffing down anger with packet of biscuits or chocolate, which becomes a habitual way of dealing with stress).

The first step in overcoming addiction is to be honest with yourself, and admit you have a problem. In the early stages of addiction, most of us deny that anything is wrong: 'I Just love my work', 'I like being skinny', 'I Just enjoy shopping'. We kid ourselves that our favorite addictive behavior is "Healthy" - such as meditating or reading couldn't possibly pose any difficulty.

Addiction is always a sign that our masculine energy is out of balance - that we are being 'driven', and have lost sight of our higher purpose or vision. Work out how your addiction is serving you then ask yourself whether you could meet those needs, or change your lifestyle, or deal with your fears, or honor your emotions and longings in healthier ways.

Give yourself plenty of silence and solitude so that you can reconnect with your deep self. Letting go need not to be prolonged and painful process. It can be easy and natural, by making new choices which support balance, wholeness and joy. Relax into the pure bliss of loving life as it is, while also moving as gently and effortlessly towards the fulfillment of our Dreams.

Own Your Shadow

Part 12

Own Your Shadow

We all tuck away aspects of ourselves which we feel are bad, shameful, painful, scary, inappropriate or unacceptable - perhaps our tears, anger, envy, grief, painful memories, or certain desires or longings.

Our shadow is rarely as fearful and hideous as we imagine it to be - and it often holds 'nuggets of gold' such as our courage, laughter, creativity and joy, since we often grow up feeling embarrassed about our best and highest qualities. Sooner or later, we need to reclaim these lost parts of our wholeness: our dark and light Shadow.

If you look at your strongest or weakest qualities, the opposite probably lies in your shadow - such as the character with a egoist shadow, or the peacemaker with an aggressive Shadow. If you consider what you admire in others, or what irritates you most, you can be sure that those qualities belong to your Shadow Self.

Our shadow can even leak out in horribly antisocial ways.

Dark side isn't necessarily bad, but it can become so if it is completely denied. Dark just means hidden from the light; it simply needs to be owned, so that its gifts can be released.

Honoring your shadow does not mean you have to act it out, fully and completely. It means allowing yourself to come into balance - so if you're a health food freak, you probably need to have an occasional slice of chocolate; if you're a pacifist, you need to own and honor your anger and see its positive side or you can allow yourself a 'nasty' morning once in a while, even if you just swear at a wall! As Jung noted, extremes tend to turn into their opposites - so we need to acknowledge our 'other side'. 

Stop judging ourselves and others for being Human, give up the need to be 'perfect' and feel more at ease with your emotions. This self-love also unblocks the pathways to our inner wisdom. Honor every part of your wholeness.

Give your Problem to Soft Time

Part 11

Give your Problems to Soft Time

One of my favorite uses of Soft Time is to give it problems to solve! If you have an issue which you have considered, analysed and generally strangled to death - and still you can't come up with a solution - then you need to give it to Soft Time.

Just recently I wanted to exercise but my partner wanted me to go hospital for some work which i felt not up for it wanted to go tomorrow instead so i let my soft time solve the problem with my thoughts creating positive out come if I had to go. I got the solution right away called from my hubby saying "all was busy today so will go tomorrow instead". 

Often the solution is simple and obvious - but somehow you had never thought of it before. That is the magic of Soft Time. I trust that there is always a solution.

The rule is: if you're struggling with an issue, you're in Hard Time - so stop! Your 90% mind has access to far more information than your conscious ego-self, and can come up with amazingly creative, sometimes wacky solutions which often nearly solve several problem at once.

To give a problem to Soft Time: 

                       firstly, trust that there is always a solution to any problem, and admit that you don't know what it is - so that your rational mind lets go. Stop struggling and say, 'I'm giving this problem to Soft Time', or write the question on a piece of paper, and put it in a special place reserved for Soft Time question.

                       Secondly, be patient. Sometimes I've had a striking answer within five minutes, but it might take hours, days or weeks. (Our 90% operates beyond linear time, so it comes up with solution instantly. The delay is at our end!)

Eventually you might have a sudden 'Aha!' experience, or a dawning awareness of what you need to do - either when you're ready to hear it, or when the timing is right, or when you give yourself enough mood-ling time for it to bubble up.

Take Responsibility

Part 10

Take Responsibility - not blame - for your life

The whole idea of taking responsibility is that if you feel like a 'poor victim' of someone else's behavior, or a bad luck, or genetics, or a disease, or the government - then you are stuck, unable to change the situation. If you assume instead that whatever happen, you're creating that reality, then a whole range of options opens up to you. If you created it, you can un-create it, or create something else! Exciting! You can learn and grow from the experience and you don't just have to sit back and accept the situation.

Blaming yourself, on the other hand, is a way of staying stuck. 'Oh, stupid me - look at what I've created!' It is a way of beating yourself up, of criticizing your inner Child and making you feel heavy, resentful and frustrated. It increase inner conflict and make it much more difficult to work out what is going on or what to do about it. 

If you catch yourself getting into self-blaming, then STOP 'you need to be especially kind and gentle with yourself in this situation I've created it feels bad - but I'm going to work on it, and make things better'.

Taking responsibility for your life - whatever happens is always helpful. Taking the blame is a no-no! Joyfully take responsibility for your life.

See the Bigger Picture

Part 9

See the Bigger Picture

If you devote your days in cleaning the house dusted, vacuumed, emptied bins, plumped up cushions as soon as someone rose from the chair or chase your toddler anxiously with damp cloth. Needles to say, you are not enjoying your child early years, because you are too busy trying to keep the house clean. if we ask you why it was so important to clean the house all day long, you would have been puzzled: doesn't everyone want a spotless house? But looking back, she wished she had relaxed and spent more time with her child.

There are times in everyone's life when you lose perspective on what really matters, when you 'cant see the forest for the trees'. There are 3 main reasons:

1. Sometime it mean that your inner child, your natural self, is hurting and kept yourself busy-busy so you can keep the pain feeling at bay. It's a tiring to run away from yourself and eventually your health and well being pay a price.

2. when you lose your way your ego-self take over and focus on details rather than on what really matters.

3. You never had a bigger picture or have no idea what your higher purpose is or What your dream are - so you choose a 'false goal' in order to have something to aim for, rather like an anorexic who aims to be thinner and thinner without really knowing why.

I often ask myself is: 'What is the bigger picture here?' Whatever you are doing, ask yourself whether it is part of your Dreams or higher purpose, or is a way of expressing or developing a higher quality such as love or gratitude, or whether you are simply enjoying it. Seeing the bigger picture is often the key to a more positive attitude to whatever you are doing.

Simple step to know Inner Self

Part 8

Simple step to know Inner Self

1. Believe in your Dream

2. Spend time wisely, knowing what is precious and what matter the most to you keep in mind that our time on Earth is limited and hugely precious.

3. Follow your bliss and your energy. If someone asks you to do something, it make your heart sink, then say No. (If it feels heavy, don’t do it)

4. Allow Mood-ling time means doing nothing in particular, without any goal or purpose. Mood-ling time have ‘slow, big ideas’ Soft Time. Allow time for simply ‘being’.

5. Enjoy the simple pleasure of Life. Grab a pen and paper, and ‘go within’; then ask your higher wisdom: ‘What do I need to do to simplify my life?’ Be open to the possibility of making big changes.

6. Everything Works Out Perfectly ‘if you have just missed your planes’ learn to say ‘Ah Well’, send loving and positive thoughts and know that (whatever happened) it would be OK. Saying ‘Ah Well’ or EWOP doesn’t mean resigning yourself to a bad situation, it is an attitude of acceptance and genuine trust and it helped me maintain my inner peace. It is a way of moving – instantly – into Soft Time.

7. Focus on the Positive, what is good and right in your life. If you take a positive attitude towards life, then whatever happens you will make the best of the situation – seeing the opportunity in every crisis, always asking yourself ‘What can I learn from this?’ or ‘What is the gift in this situation?’ If you worry a lot, it is worth having a chat with The Worrier within you.

8. Deal with what Is, not what Might Be ‘we can save ourselves a huge amount of stress.’ The ego is not good at living in the present moment is more focus on ‘What if’ or ‘Might Be’. Focus on what is happening now the present moment is our point of power, is a sacred gift and if we stay focused in the moment, even during a crisis, we will be living in Soft Time.

9. Delete ‘Yes But …’ & ‘Can’t …’ From your Vocabulary. Another common way of blocking growth certain phrases crop up again and again – phrases which get in the way of living with joy and fulfilling our higher purpose, which drag us down into heaviness, stuckness and frustration. Replace your Vocabulary with positive phrases with

• I could

• I choose to

• I will

• Oh Yes, I can do it

• I choose not to

Everyone I see is part of Me

Everyone I see is part of Me

It is easier to see other people than to see ourselves, so the Universe helpfully sends us people who mirror what we need to love and accept in ourselves, or who are facing issues which we need to resolve - whether it is our partner, friends, relatives, children, colleagues or clients. Sometimes the most painful lessons are the most transforming, simply because pain is difficult to ignore and often centres on the very issue we've been busily trying to avoid. 

Seeing the world as a mirror can be a key to understanding and healing our relationships. Each of us is a holographic fragment of All that is, so whatever we see 'out there' in the world is an aspect of our Self. Whatever qualities we most admire in our heroes and heroines - wisdom, love, courage, creativity, humour, strength - can be found in our own higher Self. 

It's impossible to be judge-mental when we remember that everyone is a mirror!

Connect with Inner Self

Connect with Inner Self

When we were young, we believe that anything is possible, as we grew up, our Hard Time society "teaches" us that fairies are just make-believes, put aside our magical selves, let go of our Dreams. 

The truth is that the magical world of Soft Time is real, and lies just a breadth from us. It take only a silent moment of stillness, changing in our mindset, positive thoughts and a heart-felt hug to make the shift. In the pure bliss of Soft Time, we remember that children were right all along: that dreams can and do come true, next time your child believe in something don't denied their rights of they thoughts of positivity.

One of the secrets of living in Soft Time is to follow our energy and reconnect the God within us. We are meant to grow through joy, live in harmony with our deep self, follow your heart, to trust your intuition and Enjoying the journey is what matters.

Spend your time wisely, knowing it is precious.

Simplify your Life

Simplify your Life

Our ego-self tries to kid us that happiness lies 'out there' in success, wealth, power, possessions or romance. Deep down, we all know that this isn't true, yet most of us have been seduced by the false promises of Hard Time - working harder, buying more, aiming higher and taking on even more commitments. We end up juggling so many demands and roles that it is impossible to relax and enjoy life.

Enough is Enough letting go of clutter and details which weigh us down, and being much more choosy about how we spend our time and money. When our outer world is simpler, our inner world of thoughts and feelings tends to be simpler too and (as I know from my own experience) with a slower pace of life, it becomes easier to see what really matters, and to enjoy the simple pleasure of life.

If you feel an inner pull towards simplicity, grab a pen and paper, and 'go within' ; then ask your higher wisdom: 'What do I need to do to simplify my life? Be open to the possibility of making big changes - Such as moving to a smaller house, leaving the city, resigning from your job of going part-time, or throwing out your entire wardrobe. Or you might feel moved to take small, easy steps at first - such as not listening to the news, shopping less often or limiting your wardrobe to two or three basic colours which suits you. Trust your heart - and take action!

I enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

Talking to the Self

Talking to the Self

When you talk to yourself in your mind, which self do you address? And how? Usually people do not talk to their divinity, but to the most superficial aspects of their everyday personality. And often it's a stream of fears, complaints and a mindless chant of old things. If we talked that way to another human being, we would have to apologise.

Learning to talk properly to the self is a spiritual effort. Thoughts from the past and worries about the future do not create good conversation. Instead learn to talk to your mind as if it were a child. Talk to it with love. If you just force a child to sit down, he won't. A good mother knows how to prompt her child into doing what she wants. Be good mother to your mind, teach it good, positive thoughts so that when you tell it to sit quietly, it will.

Love your mind, Stay Happy.

Mother/Pregnancy

Mothers/Pregnancy

Babies need the warm touch and unconditional love of a real live person. Infant who is held "in arms" is in state of bliss, for woman, pregnancy, childbirth and early motherhood can and should be a mystical experience - a blissful time of merging into oneness, breaking down the boundaries of "I-and-not-I", as we merge with our baby's growing body-mind and are no longer "alone" in the world. 

In 'First-world' cultures, a mother generally keeps her baby close to her body for many months after birth - day and night - while she carries on with her routine as usual, until the baby initiates separation from the mother by starting to crawl. Then she remains within easy reach for her wandering and exploring infant, still nursing on demand for two to four years, and giving help only when required. (Their babies almost never cry; and their children seem to grow up joyful and self-reliant, and rarely argue or fight.)

In 'Now' cultures, If a mother/caretaker is a natural mystic and return to work, say, feeling connecting to her baby and sending calm, loving thoughts knowing that her baby has been left in loving hands - her baby will experience Oneness without her physical presence. Far more commonly, a mother feels tired, stressed and guilt-ridden, and either 'shuts out' or worries about her baby while she is away - and so transmits separation anxiety to her child. Some cultures separate mother and child at birth, wean babies early and expect them to sleep alone in a cot. Our society suppress the feminine, our loss of the divine mother, by depriving infants to experience oneness with the flesh and expect to be independent in early months. Outcome of disconnect have insecure and frightened ego which we see as 'normal' there is no blame attached to this; it is simply how parents are expected to behave in our culture. 

Sadly most first-world cultures are now following in our 'advanced' footsteps and copying our UNNATURAL methods of Childbirth and Childcare.

Many have Awakens and starting to Re-Think and do as 'First-world' Cultures caring for new born.

Living in Soft Time

Signs that you are in Soft Time cycle:

• Feeling Happy and fulfilled.

• Living in the moment.

• Being open and heart-centered.

• Inner peace and harmony.

• Loving yourself and others.

• Joy, delight and cool.

• Child-like playfulness.

• Being highly creative and productive.

• Effortless concentration.

• Work feeling like play.

• Following your energy.

• Feeling energised by life.

• Attracting 'good luck'.

• Being in the 'right place at the right time'.

• Clarity of higher purpose.

• Receiving clear inner guidance.

• Trusting your inner wisdom.

• Focusing on what really matters to you.

• Seeing the 'bigger picture' of your life.

• Sense of complete freedom - anything is possible.

• Expanded or mystical awareness.

• Honouring your emotions 

• Being spontaneous and uninhibited.

• Enjoying the 'simple pleasures' of life.

• Solving problems with ease.

• Life feeling easy and effortless.

• Feeling at one with your body.

• Enjoying silence and solitude.

• Natural tendency to balance your life.

• Vibrant health and vitality.

• Sense of timelessness - time might seem to expand , or to pass rapidly, but it feels different from 'clock time'.

• Living your Dream.

• Appreciating the wonder of nature.

• Reverence for all life.

• Gratitude.

• Radiating love, light and joy to others.

Wild and Free

Wild and Free

Soft Time is like sinking our hand into the wet brown clay of a spinning potter's wheel. It gently  reaches deep down into our roots, our core, our very soul. Today on motorbike I saw baby water monitor it was trying to avoid cars and curious with vehicles passing by just gazing at this living creature i experience uncondition love and care for this little guy and its cuteness. (Hard Time mind would have barely noticed it - identify it under 'animal', then ignoring it)

Living in soft time feel vibrantly alive, reconnecting with our bodies, with nature, feel complete right down to the tips of our fingers and toes and connect deeply with our soul.

We need to reclaim our wildness. This does not mean going crazy or losing control. It mean reconnecting with our intuitive psyche, our wise, knowing self, our heart-self at gut level what we long for, what we need to do and when - the part of our self which is still connected with the Oneness.

In olden time when engineers couldnt fix mechanical problem local people who have never seen engine will put their hand inside and fix the problem. Many primary people who live in harmony with nature, were still in touch with their deep self and there were not limited to mere rational knowledges. They could tap into any information through the undivided energy field of Nature.

Children ,too, often know what they should'nt know later in life. Studies have shown children could telepathy, clairvoyance and precognition around at the age of 4 up untill 14 yrs. Long before adulthood, most of us have forgotten these skill because of fear has hi-jeck our believe systems. 

We have been letting FEAR taking over our lifes trying to tame us, control our believe systems and even destorying our inner-self connection.

Why dont you all wake-up see around you everyone lifes is fill with FEAR every decision you trying to think before you act your FEAR takes over and use all his 3 power to take over you.

3 power 

Taming

Control

Shaming

Observed now modern people have a great longing 'to walk again with the moon and stars'. We long to feel one with nature and yearn to be free like a bird or river.

Hard Time vs Soft Time

Parenting (Part 2)

Hard Time cycle vs Soft Time cycle

Soft Time

Living in the moment is feeling happy and carefree. There are no worries or concerns; no thoughts of past or future, no goal and no purpose. There is just the eternal now. When we're in Soft Time, we might feel intense joy at catching a falling leaf, hearing a child laugh or stroking the mossy bark of a tree and simple things in life that we see past it before. We feel whole, complete and connected. Our mind is peaceful and still. There is no desire to search, to act, to do. Soft Time is 'recreation' in its true sense - become oneness with nature. Once we follow our energy it become easy to move back into action to the next step that's Flow Time.

Flow Time is part of Soft Time

Once your intuitively 'know' what choices to make, or action to take and the timing feels right - we move into the active phase of the Soft Time cycle. When you're in Flow Time, everything seems easy and effortless, no inner conflict, no struggle, no fear or doubt. Living in the moment goal directed (moving towards our Dreams or Visions). Being busy doesn't mean you are in Hard Time. You choose to be busy for a while, being alert to signals from your body or inner self that you need to slow down, take action, simply 'be' for a while; if we ignore these signs, we slip into Hard Time.

Hard Time

Life is a struggle for survival too much to do in too little time, feels empty and meaningless. There is no room for singing and dancing or celebrating even if you were, your heart wouldn't be in it. Forever looking at clock in hurry and pressurized running to catch up with yourself. You are tense unable to relax. You will focus on the past or the future you wouldn't fully be at present. We can kid ourselves that being busy means being valued and 'important' - and we might fear what would happen if we slowed down enough to get in touch with ourselves. Our addictive culture encourages us to fill our lives with trivia, to have more, it gives us no sense of meaning so we buy more and more in the fantasy that if we have enough we will be happy. Enough never feel enough – we try even harder, hurry more, buy more, do more and we will always want more. We feel the urge to relax and have some 'down time' to recover which lead us into 'passive' phase of the Hard Time cycle: Lost Time

Lost Time is part of Hard Time

It often mean watching mindless TV,  Playing computer games, shopping, gossiping with friends, or aimlessly surfing the Internet – Keeping your mind ‘occupied’ so that you can ignore the silent scream of your soul. Trying to ‘recover’ your over-busy life before returning to the treadmill. This is lost time – wasted time which neither restores balance nor gives us any real joy.  Lost time help us to cope with stressful unfulfilling lifestyle or to survive for another week or month or year (just to cope with situations rather need to change). It fails to renew us, yearn us even more to fill ourselves to feel whole again. We tend to look for solution outside searching – through work, shopping, love, sex, religion, TV, sports, drugs, alcohol or just plain busyness. 

Which Time are you living in?

Ask yourself today do you want to live in soft time or hard time.

Read this book if you want to discover Pure Bliss in your life and also share you pure bliss with your love ones and Children. Show your children how living in soft time is more fun and relaxing.

Human Body

Human Body

Can teach us alot many doctors and scientist still learning but there is a message in our body how it function can tell us how to uncover true happiness, peace, true love, harmony, helping each others and many more influence we can learn.

Imagine all people in our planet is working Together in Harmony just like our body design by Divine Energy. Every details from Red Blood Cells, White Blood Cells, sending signals for movement of our body, removing carbon from lung distribute air, pumps our heart (using the right ventricle and left  artrium), Diaphragm help draw air into lungs push out air, liver produce bile help regulate blood also produce plasma proteins, Kidney eliminate waste and many other organs that help each other to protect itself from toxic in the air, food we eat, water we drink and element that touches our skins. 

If people on this earth does the same function Working Together in Harmony wouldnt Our Planet be heavenly. Our body doesn't compete with each other. 

If Red Blood Cells and White Blood cells try to kill each other our body will never function properly. 

If plasma and platelets always in contest.

If lung stop distributing air.

Our Body will get really sick and die out.

Time to Awaken yourself and learn from with in. 

Let our body influence and guide you.

Re-new, Re-think, Re-act

Irritating

Irritating

We feel that some of human behavior irritated us and we take away our own inner peace by forcusing our mind-set on things people do or behave.

Ex: A family walk in movie theatre with snack and make alot of noise your peace of mind is still at peace but you choose to look at them and starting thinking negative blaming them for disturbing you. But the truth is that we should control our mind not to wonder off finding trouble for us. When we act on other people behavior we deplead our inner peace and make us unhappy. 

Dont let your mind-set take over and steal your inner peace. The moment your thought start to point blame on others behavior talk to yourself change your forcus on positive thought or put yourself in they place if you were excited to watch movie with some snacks so can others as well.

ความคิดต่างกัน

ความคิดต่างกัน

ต่างคนเกิดมาในสิ่งแวดล้อมที่ไม่เหมือนกัน ครอบครัว สอนมาไม่เหมือนกันความคิดเลยไม่เหมือนกัน หลังจากที่เราแต่งงานเข้ามาอยู่กับคู่ชีวิตเราตอนสนทนากันจะมีการขัดแย้งเกิดขึ้น เกิดจากความคิดไม่เหมือนกันทั้งคู่ไม่ผิด 

เราสามารถอยู่ด้วยกันได้ โดยอย่าหวังให้คู่ครองเรามีนิสัยเหมือนเรา ทะเลาะเบาะแว้งก็จะไม่เกิดขึ้น ต่างคนต่างความคิด

ถ้าทั้ง 2 คาดหวังซึ่งกันและกัน ชีวิตจะว้าวุ่นไปหมด แล้วทำให้เกิดการหย่ากันเพราะความคิดต่างกัน เรื่องเล็กๆทำเป็นเรื่องใหญ่ แล้ววันหลังตอนเรื่องใหญ่เกิดขึ้นเราจะทำได้อย่างไรศาสนาพุทธของเราเองก็สอนไว้ว่ามีสติดีกว่าขาดสติ

ทุกคนอยากสนทนาที่ไม่เกิดให้ทะเลาะเบาะแว้งเกิดขึ้น เราสามารถทำได้โดยใช้สติ ปัญญาและความรัก ถ้าเรามองเห็นว่าเรามีความคิดต่างกัน เอาใจเขามาใส่ใจเรา ไม่ใช่ว่าเราต้องเชื่อเขาแต่ว่า เข้าใจเขา 

ยกตัวอย่าง

เวลาสนทนากันถ้าคู่คุณพูดในสิ่งที่คุณ มีความคิดที่ไม่เหมือนกัน อย่าไปจับผิดเขาหรือบอกเขาว่าผิด ต่างประสบการณ์ ต่างความคิด ทำให้ใจเย็นซะก่อนแล้วค่อยตอบเขาด้วยความรักและความคิดของคุณก็ต้องเป็นบวกเวลาที่คุณตอบเขา

เวลาที่เราเอาคำพูดของคนอื่นแล้วกลับมาคิดหลายๆรอบในหัวสมองของเราทำให้เรามีความเครียดเกิดขึ้นและไม่มีความสุข

คนที่ทำให้คุณโกรธง่ายไม่ได้เป็นคนอื่นแต่เป็นคุณเองที่คิดแล้วคิดอีก นิสัยของเราชอบเอาคำพูดของคนอื่นมาคิด ซ้ำไปซ้ำมาทำให้เราเชื่อในคำพูดของคนอื่นแล้วโมโหโกรธ ถ้าเราเข้าใจเขาว่าต่างคนมีความคิดไม่เหมือนกันเราไม่ถือสา ชีวิตเราจะง่ายกว่านี้เรามีความสุขเยอะกว่านี้

Thankyou Grey Hair

Thank you Grey Hair

Why you say well here goes:

When you are enjoying being who you are.

People will walk up to you by giving you fear try to tame you by these question.

You will not look beautiful

What will people think

It looks ugly 

You are not allow to go out looking like this

After this many might feel low and depress but if you have positive mindset would let it go and can learn from this experience that people will always have opinion about your looks but always remember; its not about you, Is they sanskar(morals) can only see beauty outside not from within. The movement we understand this we would laugh at their comment cause you know what is real beauty. 

Don't let other take away your positive mindset. Your choice to give-in to fear. But if you still need to cover your grey hair it should be your decision not what others say or demand from you.

Becoming Adult

Becoming Adult

Our Parent, Family and Teachers never taught us how to have peace of mind, positive mindset, see beauty in everything, happy with little things, gratitude, kindness, Uncondition Love and forgiveness.

Imagine if we were taught these at Home, School, University and Work Place our life would be totally at peace and Paradise.

Bitter truth is that once we become adults we have programe our mindset to negative thoughts for others and for our self by holding on to the hurtful words of others.

We automatically get depress with what others say about us or trying so bad to fit in with others forgetting our own will of happiness. Wanting approval and love from others instead of loving yourself and approve ourselves.

Playing Games

Innocent playing games with family

Can turn out to take away their self-esteem. Playing by teasing, competition, point out false and behavior is all fun & laughter but later turn into anger, controlling, shaming and misbehaving.

All because of playing with autopilot thoughts; allowing mind to do shaming, blaming, controlling if only we were conscious of what our thought are saying to us and acting on it. If we took control of our thought be alert what is creating and not let it do thing or saying things that will end up making us upset(angry) and blaming other of our doing.

Make a Happy List

Make a Happy List

In order to focus on the positive, try making a list of all the good things in your life. This might seem difficult at first, but you can always ask friends and family for help. The list could be made up of personal or general points, for example "I am healthy", or "My family is supportive". This is something you can pin in a prominent place to remind you of the good around you when negativity seems to be creeping in.

Lost and Found

Lost and Found

Being lost in thought, thinking about things to do, what's been done, what could have been done... is not only tiring but also a brilliant way to waste energy. It diminishes your peacefulness and clouds your clarity. Every time you become lost in thought it means exactly that - you are lost!

To find yourself, allow your mind to become quiet, to become utterly tranquil.

In the quiet depths of every being, there is a stillness that contains a deep inner peace and wisdom that can guide you in your life.

How is our Karma Created?

How is our Karma Created?

Allow your mind to slow down, do not judge your thoughts as good or bad, accept them and let them go.

There are so many external crisis. There is nothing you can do about that. But the crisis you create in your own mind, at least put a stop to that.

When you build a house, every brick counts. When you build a character, every thought counts.

You are what you think.

Love, purity, peace, wisdom - the more think of these qualities, the more you will become them.

Our thoughts, words and action are the energy we send to people it forms our KARMA.

Situation and people's behavior towards us, are the energies on the return, which we call our DESTINY.

We misuse our freewill and create our misfortunes. Its not the will of God, to give us pain.

God gives us knowledge and power to face consequences of our karma.

Its upto us to create GOOD KARMA.

Its Normal

Normal or Abnormal Life

Everyone believe getting angry or making a big deal out of emotional is normal. But if other choose to not make a big deal is abnormal "What is your thought try to say?"

Getting angry is normal is ok to make it big deal. 

If your definition of normal is to get angry, upset, stress, worry, desire, blaming, guilt and hate.

Then abnormal are those who chooses to be happy, patient, calm, minimalist, laugh at stressful time, play instead of worry, smile and hug when their are happy.

I would rather be Abnormal.

 If we all start to accept the out come of bad things is normal then it become our reality and would be hard to change our mindset since we strongly believe in hard time rather then soft time.

Gossip

Gossip

Is it Healthy or Non Healthy

Did you know when gossip about other we are depleting our own energy and disconnecting us from the source (God). Because when we gossip we taking in other people trash into our own mind. Since the source (God) only dwell in peaceful & pure mind when we bring in trash into our mind it doesn't become pure so God moves out.

Why people write quotes about Gossip but till now nobody understand the real reason why we shouldn't gossip. I have confronted many people in my life about this matter their all seem to make excuses saying that "we are just giving or passing information not really gossiping". 

Just try this experiment on yourself after Gossip .... write down what are you feeling at the very moment ... did it trigger: Anger, Fear, Doubt, Love, Joy, Laughter and how long did it stay with you.

By gossiping we also add it into our karma which create our destiny. Now you can't blame your karma since we all create that behavior. 

Warning: TV Programs also teaching, guiding, brain-washing you "Is Normal to Gossip".

Love

Love 

Chapter 1

Long time ago I never met Love

I didnt know it exist or what it was.

Until one day i found a book about Love,

I was inspire i look everywhere 

Up, down, Side and hidden space I was unable to fine it.

My soul partner told me it doesnt exist "Love"

I was sad again, but then i wanted to be positive so i hold on to "Love" to prove everyone that LOVE EXIST.

After many year when by tried Vipassana, Eye Open Meditation, Kundalini, Read more books and Finally out of the blue during my Meditation I FOUND LOVE.

Is more then i could handle i cried i cried cried non-stop for everyone here in earth. You me and all of us we have forgotten LOVE that's why we were all missing this LOVE POWER in our heart we were all looking at the wrong place.

LOVE IS IN US ALL BUT WE WERE ALL BLIDE BY

Materials things

Self-fish

Racing with each other

Aiming to be better then other

Not sharing (we teach kids to share, but we do the opposite)

IF ALL DO THIS WE WOULD FINE LOVE:

Sharing

Caring

No Assumption

OUT IN THE OPEN (Sincere with each other)

Greatful

Accept all as they are

LOVE IN OUR HEART, WILL LAST FOREVER.

Retrack and Rethink Part 2

Practical Suggestions

1. Choose a problem or issue in your life or a dream that has not yet come true. What are your usual thoughts about this? Talk to yourself about it.and notice how it makes you feel. 

This indicates your current vibrational state on that topic.

If it feels wonderful, you are moving fast towards what you want. If not, you have some work to do.

2. Every time you choose happiness and joy, rather than trying to be 'good', you are allowing your energy to flow freely. Choose thoughts that feel joy, Choose actions that feel joy. Only say 'Yes' to others when your mind and soul is willing to good not being force to do. 

3. Accept people as there are is their behavior/morals once you have this concept of understand that we all human have different attitude and they act out base on the thoughts before re-checking their thoughts. Dont try to correct them or find false cause we are surppose to face challenge not try to change others. It is only when you accept that everyone is good and worthy and aim to be happy rather than good, that you escape from these lower vibration. But move towards freedom, empowerment and well-being.

4.  Notice what makes you feel wonderful. Choose at least 2 or 3 activites that help you flow freely - perhaps meditation, playing any music instrument, drawing, walk in nature, hugging your partner or family, playing with your pets, sitting in your garden, running or yoga - and make these a TOP Priority in your Daily Lifestyle.

Retrack and Rethink Part 1

Attention all parents You need to: Retrack, Rethink, New Believe systems, strong will to face challenges and apply unconditional Love.

Before we pursue any aim in life we needed to learn and pratice that line of work. But we neglected to learn or practice our behavior, mindset and face challenges in our parenting skills.

Most of us were raised by parents who themselves grew up with 'shaming' as a method of controlling their children. Even if our parents are kind and loving, we soon get the message of conditional love: that is, you will receive love and approval "as long as you behave as we want you to".

Few parents realise that their children's behaviour is largely provoke by their vibrations. When we are happy, relaxed and positive; our children tent to be happy, relaxed and positive.

When we are disconnected, we tend to disconnect them. Yet instead of taking responsibility for what we evoke from our children, and for our own reaction, we try to control our world from the outside in - by getting "them" to change "their" behaviour. We usually do this by making them feel bad and urging them to "be good".

We pretend to be calm, happy and smile when we are depressed or resentment, thus teaching our children to imitate our behaviour. Such patterns are then transferred to our adult relationship; that is, we try to resolve problem by wanting to control or 'fix' the other person, or by shaming ourselves and feeling guilty - or denying problems, and pretending everything is fine - rather then by changing our energy-consciousness, our vibrations, which are the origin of the problem.

Shame is toxic if you were shamed and tamed during your childhood and grew up believing that your feelings and desires are bad and unacceptable. So you pretend to be happy, withdrawn and suppress your emotions (needs are dismissed) trying to make them proud and get approval from our parent.

This pattern can be past on to our children. By the time you are an adult, you no longer need others approval, but it has become a habit. 

We can put to stop of this pattern, first we need to heal our inner childhood.

Personality Create Destiny

Personality Create Destiny

Every thought is creating our destiny. Are you checking your thought is it positive or negative.

If you have negative thought for others also effect our body, mind and future. 

Worry

Doubt

Problem

Blame

When we face problem or people our mind will automatically create wrong thought that will try to prevent you to face your challenges, Its not healthy for your mental health. 

 Wrong thoughts can be cause by something small it will make you over think and cause a fight.

Alcohol

Alcohol 🍷🍸🍹🍺🍻🥂

1 glass nothing much

2 glass something happenning🦚

3 glass i can fly 🦅

The movement you stop and let the alcohol do its work you dont really need more then 2 glass of alcohol.

Your head go spinning 🌪

Your mind is relax but spinning as well🧎‍♀️🌪

Your heart become clam for once.🥰

Your thought dont want to talk anymore or listen.

Wish in real life we could master the art to control our mind, heart & thought just like alcohol.

Power of alcohol is good but if only people knew how to use alcohol for right reason. Not just to get drunk.

Alcohol remind our mind that we should face problem like a child fun 🤸‍♀️, excitement 🥳& funny🤪.

Actor / Actress

Don't go crazy after Actor/Actress that you see on TV. 

We are also Actor/Actress but in real life the best part is we get to choose our own role and dialog and even get to direct our own life. Is up to us what kind of role we like to play. The only different is that Actor/Actress on TV get awards like trofy but we get the best awards that's good value. 

Is all up to us if we choose to play good or bad, nobody write our line we get to do that too!! We are master of our own play. You can be the best directer or the worst directer.

Slave to Money

We human were not born to run after money but we were all taught that at very young age by our:

● Parents

● Teachers

● Neighbour

● Grandparents

● Professors

● Relatives

● Media

● Celebrities

● Last our own Friend

Imagine a new born child sitting next to you right now new empty brain what would you teach her or him. We never think that once we have child we as parents have big part to play as leader and have power to create a better human by what we can speak or teach to this new born child that has no clue or ideas what out there and is listening to our every words to guide them as well our action the child is looking at us like when we watch movies. He is studying our every moves.

We were taught in school that we all  should become something and make money from it (work for money) But the truth is if our teacher has taught us to become doctor to help them or guide the new generation how to be kind. We would have been a better person. If only the teacher have told us the real truth. That we were to become Robots.

Media has a big part to play showing us Advertisement that we shouldnt be happy with:

▪ small house

▪ less furniture

▪ less color

▪ better car

▪ new technology

▪ better phone

▪ better clothes

▪ Jewelry to decorate our body

▪ Something is wrong with our looks cause we all need make up

Media is giving us fear, doubt, insecurity, taking away faith and our dignity.

Goverment, School, University, Media, Hospitals, Factories and Farmers. 

These all is been running by someone who doesnt want us to stop running after money been keeping us busy so we dont stop and look at our real self in the mirror and question these:

1. Do I really need bigger house?

2. Why our great grandparent was never sick and was healthy live longer life?

3. Why are all clothes have chemicals that will keep us sick but we dont know it?

4. Why are our Veggies dont grow naturally and put chemical in them?

5. Why do I have to eat more then 3 meals am I that hungry?

6. Why Cant we share water?

7. Why we need all brand cars?

8. Why we need 20 house but live in only one house?

9. Why lots of ppl who cant race like us end up being labels as poor?

10. Why we feel we are not same when the truth is we are all same.

11. Why do we need to cut down thousand of tree to fill our house with furniture and killing innocence animals home to make ours? And when animal invades our home we forget we first invades there homes.

12. Why School never teach us Faith, Love, Kindness, Caring, How to enjoy life And what is True Happiness cause there want us to be brain dead …. control us.