Heart Growing

  My Dream Relationship I want a relationship that values happiness over being right. I want a relationship that values kindness over pointing out who’s wrong. I want a relationship that values honesty over dishonesty. I want a relationship that chooses openness over hiding. I want a relationship that feels like home, not a battlefield. I want a relationship that feels equal, not like a pedestal. I want a relationship that observes with care, not to weaponize. I want a relationship where physical touch comes from love, not performance. I want a relationship that truly listens, not pretends to. I want a relationship that seeks bliss, not flaws. I want a relationship where I feel seen, not invisible. I want a relationship that feels safe, not unsafe. I want a relationship that plays in love, not in mind games. I want a relationship that teaches us to face fear, not feed it. I want a relationship that is soft, not walled off. I want a relationship where love exists—not one where I hav...

Don't wait  ... let's imagine you want to give flower to your family (Flower = Love) Have a Garden in your Mind but you never took time to take care of the garden in your mind to grow all beautiful flowers 💐to give and share them with ur family but instead u just give them empty bouquet with no flowers in them the result would be no peaceful, happiness would turn into emptiness, love will also feel fake and laughing will be looking for in media instead with each other. Now You started notice that the garden you neglected had all kinds of weeds took roots it's full of unpleasant plants with thorns, some flower stick to your clothes wouldn't let go also hurt it tichy as well. U started taking out the thorns but it hurts your name & you fall down to cry cause nobody wants to give you helping hand to clean your garden (mindset - Thoughts). Your first priority should always be you meaning take care of your mindset with mindfulness practice, self talk, meditation &...

 Attachment (📎 paperclip vs staples )                We can learn a lot from paperclip and staples is another meaning as attachment we use paperclip to attach paper together sometime not just one or two but lots of paper together making into stories and that becomes a book. But once we don't have paperclip we cant put the paper together and new invention happen staples now that is permanent. Paperclip can be detach as for staple is permanent attachment even if we do take out the staple the marks are still there. If we take our life as paperclip leaving good memories without hurting the paper same apply to human being heart. Practicing to be paperclip hold on the person but not to strongly and learning to let go by detaching yourself same apply to family members, father, mother, brother , sister, relatives, friends, boss, couples, wife, husband, babies, house, material things, possession, money, status and roles that we play everyday.  B...

❤I Love You❤ This phrase we use alot by our mom, dad, lover and friend, but have you ever noticed how is being missed use with lots if conditions not accepting us in process. I love you that's why I scold you,  I love you but still have to listen to me,  I love you cause I worry for you,  I love you cause I can't live without you, I love you please love me too. Why dont we change from saying " I Love you"  to "I ACCEPT YOU"  In this way we wouldn't want our friends, family, relationships to change to make us happy but instead we ACCEPT THEM As They Are and that would be solve all problem.  💞I ACCEPT YOU ALL💞

Being Ignored  If anyone of you is being Ignored by family, friends or people in talklife, you have a choice to take it; 3 option here are ur choices:  Positive (+) ➕❤:  They are not in good state to share there feelings, they are in pain but doesn't want anyone else to feel the same.  Understanding➕❤: They are going throw some challenge that there need lots of courage to face, so don't want to be bothered since there want to heal themselves first.  Negative (-)➖💔: I am not good enough, for them why did there ignore me. What's wrong with me I hate them all.  Is your mind ur best friend 😊or your enemy👿😈👹👺 pick your options wisely One can beat you down low🛑 and others can lift🚟🚠 you up higher🪂.