Heart Growing

 Listening with Love vs. Listening as Duty Listening should be an act of connection, not just an obligation. True listening involves understanding boundaries, knowing when to engage, and ensuring conversations foster respect rather than control. It’s about more than hearing words—it’s about creating trust and honoring emotions. 🚧🚦 The Red Light & Green Light of Listening 🚦🚧 Red Light (Respecting Boundaries & Avoiding Harm) 🔴 Personal Requests & Sensitivity – When someone expresses a request, whether verbal or nonverbal, it’s a red light if they show discomfort or resistance. Honoring their boundaries means avoiding words or behaviors that trigger emotional distress. Example : If someone asks not to be spoken to in a critical tone, continuously ignoring this request can lead to emotional exhaustion instead of connection. 🔴 Parent-Child Boundaries – Children often struggle when their feelings are dismissed. If a child expresses distress about a parent’s behavior, ...

 I fine being 😀😅 naughty is more fun then being boring😑😒 and 😐serious.  Having childish👶👼😆😂😁 attitude towards life it's color 🌈full of fun and games.  Naughty teasing with your love once but with stranger you might feel uncomfortable to be that childish, fear always comes in "what if there misunderstood me", so I choose to be clear and honest with my words. When ever I am behaving inappropriately with stranger I always inform them of my intention so that there don't have to make up there own story of my action, notice when I feel comfortable around anyone I tend to be more friendly😌, teasing😉, loving😍, caring😇 and naugthy 😏 just piss them off in a good way.