Heart Growing

 🌬 The Inner Geomancer Day 1: Noticing Begins Feng shui wasn’t invented—it was noticed.  Noticing is how we begin.  Noticing is how we reclaim. Today, I invite you to notice what feels heavy in your space.  Not what’s “wrong.” Not what’s “bad.”  Just… what’s loud. What’s too much. What’s lingering. For me, it was a shelf of boardgames.  They’ve brought joy, laughter, connection.  But when I passed by them on days I didn’t need them, they felt like clutter.  Not because they were wrong—  But because joy, when always on display, can become noise. So I moved them.  Not out of shame, but out of love.  They’re still here—out of sight in the cupboard, still reachable.  Because sometimes, seeing something daily can overwhelm us.  Out of sight but still reachable is the way. And if you live in a small space, with no extra cupboards or storage—  The invitation is even deeper.  Notice what you don’t use at all.  What...

  My Dream Relationship I want a relationship that values happiness over being right. I want a relationship that values kindness over pointing out who’s wrong. I want a relationship that values honesty over dishonesty. I want a relationship that chooses openness over hiding. I want a relationship that feels like home, not a battlefield. I want a relationship that feels equal, not like a pedestal. I want a relationship that observes with care, not to weaponize. I want a relationship where physical touch comes from love, not performance. I want a relationship that truly listens, not pretends to. I want a relationship that seeks bliss, not flaws. I want a relationship where I feel seen, not invisible. I want a relationship that feels safe, not unsafe. I want a relationship that plays in love, not in mind games. I want a relationship that teaches us to face fear, not feed it. I want a relationship that is soft, not walled off. I want a relationship where love exists—not one where I hav...

Your voice and your love for me melt my heart—as well as my body. My senses are intoxicated by your voice.   Your soft lips, speaking those words, felt like they were touching my skin ✨️   The heat and fire within 🔥 seem to have their own mind, wanting to erupt.   My body is hungry for your touch and your lips.

When you understand me I felt I am not alone anymore  When you understand me I felt like I can do anything  When you understand me I felt like am not invisible anymore  When you understand me I felt like I can do hard things. When you understand me I felt like being alone is more fun and exciting to enjoy own company. When you understand me I felt only short answer can satisfy me.

When you speak  It felt like cloud came down to lift me up. When you speak It felt like a dance I can't forget  When you speak It felt like I was hypnosis and I forgot who I am and where I am When you speak  I felt like I wanted to be that lips to speak those words. When you speak I felt like submitting myself to you

🌿 What I Choose to Ignore—And Why It Sets Me Free I face my fear—while ignoring the fear itself . I ignore to preserve peace. I ignore to stay clear. I ignore to remain available to solutions. For many years, I was ignored—dismissed, overlooked, misunderstood. But in that silence, I found something unexpected: Peace . The ignorance of others became a mirror, showing me what not to carry. So I chose the same kind of ignorance—not as bitterness, but as wisdom. I now ignore what doesn’t serve my peace. When the earth shook beneath me, I didn’t panic. I stayed alert, calm, and present—able to assist others who were overwhelmed. That clarity came from years of choosing what not to carry. I ignore: 🗣 Criticism that doesn’t serve growth 🤡 Mockery that seeks reaction 🧨 Foul language , transforming it into harmless meaning 🌪 Anger storms , responding with steady calm I ask when I don’t understand. I speak when I need to. I listen for tone, not just words. And I choose to inte...