Heart Growing

Wedding is the time of two couple that have fall in love and want to share they love story with people around them. They have a vision how they wedding party should be dance, dress, decoration and pictures. Falling love is out of the picture cause everyone focus on the picture perfect. If they didn't have audience then not needed picture perfect casual all are relax having a good time and both loving couple could relax as well.  Relative that come to party all dress up to impress other people and picture should come out perfect forgetting we are they to bless the newly wed couples. Wearing uncomfortable shoes, dress just so to make other people like us. What has wedding party comes to, in the end people will criticise others heights, figure, limited seatings, foods and on top paid lots of money for the party but instead of getting blessing People talk behind they back. Full of fake loving people if we only focus more on sharing love and let people wear they casual clothes not neede...

Seed of Peace If we plant a positive, clean seed of thought and concentrate on it, we give it energy, like the sun gives to a seed in the earth. And as the seed in the earth awakens, stirs and begins to grow, the thoughts on which we concentrate awaken, stir and begin to grow. So let us sow positive thoughts. Each morning before we begin the journey of the day let us sit still, in silence, and sow the seed of peace. Peace is harmony and balance. Peace is freedom from the burden of negativity and wastefulness. Let peace find its home within us. Peace is our original strength, our eternal tranquility of being

Nurture Nature Many a philosophical debate arrives at the bottom line - are we naturally the way we are or is it nurtured? Are we all pure in heart, but blinded by the impurities of the world? Are we all enlightened souls who have simply succumbed to illusion? Most of us have an intuitive response which seems to acknowledge that there is goodness in everyone, it's simply sometimes hard to see. As we look at ourselves maybe we even find it hard to see the good in ourselves. Perhaps we've been taught to see only the dark, the negative. Perhaps we grew up with others whose vision always landed on the negative. But who would choose to live in the darkness? Who would choose to be a negative person? Who would choose pessimism? Probably very, very few, if only we could see the choice. That's why it is essential you find the good, however small within yourself, tend to it, nurture it, nourish it - just as you would the plants in your garden. When you focus on the good, ...

This is normal that what people around me keep saying. Normal 1. Blaming       Blame someone for our own unhappiness or sadness or someone didn't do the task. 2. Fighting        Fine false in somebody so that can take out anger to the other people to realise frustrated.  3. Talk about the third person        Talk about someone else that is not our business to tell or it doesn't help us or improve our life for the better. 4. What will people say or think         Care for society that never live with us, help us in our work, but just giving opinion how we should act or behave, demand respect, do as u are told and never walk out of line. 5. Wanting and Expectation        Didnt full fill Expectation will get judgement, blackmail, comparing, controlling, demanding and abusive. 6. Finding peace outside and focus on bad outcome in life. 7. Practice wanting love, controlling others an...

Trust Yourself  Parenting (Part 19) The age of gurus is coming to an end, it's no longer appropriate for us to turn to priests, seers and other external guides for advice about what to do, or to put others on pedestals and project our wisdom on to them. It is time to trust our own inner guidance, our deep self. Trust the fleeting inner impression which most of us ignore or dismiss. If we trust our inner wisdom, we know everything we need to know. To activate the inner wisdom is by meditation on empty stomach early morning and to be able to control your inner thoughts best time meditation is at 3am with this we will intuitively know what we need to do next, in any area of our lives. When we trust ourselves, life becomes far more magical.  If we take a leap of faith following our hearts, 'knowing' it is the right step to take the Universe says "Yes, Yes, Yes!" If we are willing to let go and to change, to close one door before the next door opens. We have to live in...

Parenting (Part 18) Listen to the Voice of Love, Not Fear In every situation, we can listen to the voice of love or the voice of fear. The voice of love, the voice of our deep self, connects us with the greater reality of Oneness. It knows that everything 'out there' is an aspect of the self, and that the universe is friendly and loving. It is the 'still small voice within'. It encourages us to grow, to expand, to reach out, to believe in miracles, to follow our Dreams. (The world may be filled with ego-selves, it can also warn us about potential dangers, ensuring we are not in the wrong place at the wrong time.) Don't squash your fears down, since whatever we resist persists. Become aware of your fears without identifying with them - and send love to that fearful part of yourself. When you have fearful thought or slip into a 'thought attack', smile and call light to yourself - and choose loving, positive thoughts instead. Visualize what you're afraid of...

Parenting (Part 17) Cherish Yourself - Just as you are Our Inner child is constantly wounded in childhood. Our parents, teachers and guardians do their best, but they are only human and cannot provide Unconditional Love. Most of us grew up learned & still believing that we only get love and approval if we do as we're told or be good which made us doubt ourselves and try even harder to get love/approval from others.  The Inner child cannot reason for itself - that is the job of the ego-self - so it simply accepts toxic beliefs as if they were literally true and stores them as information. "My eyes are brown, I have beautiful hair and I'm fat." It then goes on to prove such statements are true - sometimes throughout our lives! There is nothing wrong with you - apart perhaps from some false, toxic beliefs about yourself and life, which can be released.  Shame can also be healed by connecting with our inner wisdom. Our higher Self loves us Unconditionally....

Parenting (Part 16) Forgive Yourself If we feel ashamed or guilty, it can block the channel to our higher self - so it is high-priority to clear shame and guilt from our emotional body by making amends, then let it go. If you sit quietly, ask your inner child what it feels guilty about -  you might be amazed at how much emotional baggage you are carrying!  Releasing shame and guilt is a four-stage process: 1. Become aware of what you feel guilty about, and let go of shame or guilt by reassuring your inner child that enjoying yourself, relaxing or being human are not reason to feel bad! 2. Forgive yourself for any harmful or hurtful behaviour. This mean realising that we are always doing the best we can.  3. Make amends, if it is appropriate. Perhaps you need to talk about it with the other person, or apologize, or replace what you broke or forget to return, or what ever. Or if you've lost touch, or the person is dead, or it feels ridiculous to bring it up, you...

Parenting (Part 15) Give and Receive Love Love begins and ends with the Self, that we cannot Love others unless we first love ourselves. Many people believe that they will love themselves once someone else loves them first but unless we are a source of Love, we cannot attract loving relationship.  Self-love gives us the strength to be vulnerable, to drop our defences, to reveal our own truth - knowing that we have nothing to hide, no need to pretend.  As we love and accept ourselves as we are, we become more loving and giving, and genuinely enjoy others company. Other people feel relaxed and 'Safe' with us, and respond by being more open and honest - so we naturally develop good friends and loving relationships. Self-Love mean we give love freely, without expecting anything in return - a spontaneous hug, an unexpected bunch of flowers, a warm smile for a stranger, a loving note in a child's lunch box, an offer for help to a friend in need, a cheque to a charity ...

Part 14 Open your Heart Whenever we speak from our heart rather than our head we speak from unconditional Love and wisdom we open ourselves to miracles. Love transforms everything.  Whatever the problem, in any kind of relationship, opening your heart almost always changes how you approach the situation and that affects how others respond. When you stop taking it personally, and look at it with an open heart, what do you see? What would your heart say in this situation? Opening your heart also allows us to listen - really listen to the other person.  Most of the time, our head are so full of thoughts about what the other person is saying, or how we feel about it, or what we're going to say next, that we're not really listening at all. Opening your heart means that your thoughts are still, and you feel loving, calm and fully present. Now - what is the other person saying?

Part 13 Let go of your Addictions We live in an addictive society - that is, a society which encourage us to look outside the Self for happiness and fulfillment (rather like searching for God in all the wrong places). We as parent also passing this teaching on to our children. Most of us have at least on addictive way of coping with life: perhaps overworking, alcohol, drugs, overeating, dieting, shopping, TV-watching, busyness, smoking, exercise or staring at a computer screen. (stuffing down anger with packet of biscuits or chocolate, which becomes a habitual way of dealing with stress). The first step in overcoming addiction is to be honest with yourself, and admit you have a problem. In the early stages of addiction, most of us deny that anything is wrong: 'I Just love my work', 'I like being skinny', 'I Just enjoy shopping'. We kid ourselves that our favorite addictive behavior is "Healthy" - such as meditating or reading couldn't p...

Part 12 Own Your Shadow We all tuck away aspects of ourselves which we feel are bad, shameful, painful, scary, inappropriate or unacceptable - perhaps our tears, anger, envy, grief, painful memories, or certain desires or longings. Our shadow is rarely as fearful and hideous as we imagine it to be - and it often holds 'nuggets of gold' such as our courage, laughter, creativity and joy, since we often grow up feeling embarrassed about our best and highest qualities. Sooner or later, we need to reclaim these lost parts of our wholeness: our dark and light Shadow. If you look at your strongest or weakest qualities, the opposite probably lies in your shadow - such as the character with a egoist shadow, or the peacemaker with an aggressive Shadow. If you consider what you admire in others, or what irritates you most, you can be sure that those qualities belong to your Shadow Self. Our shadow can even leak out in horribly antisocial ways. Dark side isn't necessarily b...

Part 11 Give your Problems to Soft Time One of my favorite uses of Soft Time is to give it problems to solve! If you have an issue which you have considered, analysed and generally strangled to death - and still you can't come up with a solution - then you need to give it to Soft Time. Just recently I wanted to exercise but my partner wanted me to go hospital for some work which i felt not up for it wanted to go tomorrow instead so i let my soft time solve the problem with my thoughts creating positive out come if I had to go. I got the solution right away called from my hubby saying "all was busy today so will go tomorrow instead".  Often the solution is simple and obvious - but somehow you had never thought of it before. That is the magic of Soft Time. I trust that there is always a solution. The rule is: if you're struggling with an issue, you're in Hard Time - so stop! Your 90% mind has access to far more information than your conscious ego-self, a...

Part 10 Take Responsibility - not blame - for your life The whole idea of taking responsibility is that if you feel like a 'poor victim' of someone else's behavior, or a bad luck, or genetics, or a disease, or the government - then you are stuck, unable to change the situation. If you assume instead that whatever happen, you're creating that reality, then a whole range of options opens up to you. If you created it, you can un-create it, or create something else! Exciting! You can learn and grow from the experience and you don't just have to sit back and accept the situation. Blaming yourself, on the other hand, is a way of staying stuck. 'Oh, stupid me - look at what I've created!' It is a way of beating yourself up, of criticizing your inner Child and making you feel heavy, resentful and frustrated. It increase inner conflict and make it much more difficult to work out what is going on or what to do about it.  If you catch yourself getting i...

Part 9 See the Bigger Picture If you devote your days in cleaning the house dusted, vacuumed, emptied bins, plumped up cushions as soon as someone rose from the chair or chase your toddler anxiously with damp cloth. Needles to say, you are not enjoying your child early years, because you are too busy trying to keep the house clean. if we ask you why it was so important to clean the house all day long, you would have been puzzled: doesn't everyone want a spotless house? But looking back, she wished she had relaxed and spent more time with her child. There are times in everyone's life when you lose perspective on what really matters, when you 'cant see the forest for the trees'. There are 3 main reasons: 1. Sometime it mean that your inner child, your natural self, is hurting and kept yourself busy-busy so you can keep the pain feeling at bay. It's a tiring to run away from yourself and eventually your health and well being pay a price. 2. when you lose yo...

Part 8 Simple step to know Inner Self 1. Believe in your Dream 2. Spend time wisely, knowing what is precious and what matter the most to you keep in mind that our time on Earth is limited and hugely precious. 3. Follow your bliss and your energy. If someone asks you to do something, it make your heart sink, then say No. (If it feels heavy, don’t do it) 4. Allow Mood-ling time means doing nothing in particular, without any goal or purpose. Mood-ling time have ‘slow, big ideas’ Soft Time. Allow time for simply ‘being’. 5. Enjoy the simple pleasure of Life. Grab a pen and paper, and ‘go within’; then ask your higher wisdom: ‘What do I need to do to simplify my life?’ Be open to the possibility of making big changes. 6. Everything Works Out Perfectly ‘if you have just missed your planes’ learn to say ‘Ah Well’, send loving and positive thoughts and know that (whatever happened) it would be OK. Saying ‘Ah Well’ or EWOP doesn’t mean resigning yourself to a bad situation, it is a...

Everyone I see is part of Me It is easier to see other people than to see ourselves, so the Universe helpfully sends us people who mirror what we need to love and accept in ourselves, or who are facing issues which we need to resolve - whether it is our partner, friends, relatives, children, colleagues or clients. Sometimes the most painful lessons are the most transforming, simply because pain is difficult to ignore and often centres on the very issue we've been busily trying to avoid.  Seeing the world as a mirror can be a key to understanding and healing our relationships. Each of us is a holographic fragment of All that is, so whatever we see 'out there' in the world is an aspect of our Self. Whatever qualities we most admire in our heroes and heroines - wisdom, love, courage, creativity, humour, strength - can be found in our own higher Self.  It's impossible to be judge-mental when we remember that everyone is a mirror!

Connect with Inner Self When we were young, we believe that anything is possible, as we grew up, our Hard Time society "teaches" us that fairies are just make-believes, put aside our magical selves, let go of our Dreams.  The truth is that the magical world of Soft Time is real, and lies just a breadth from us. It take only a silent moment of stillness, changing in our mindset, positive thoughts and a heart-felt hug to make the shift. In the pure bliss of Soft Time, we remember that children were right all along: that dreams can and do come true, next time your child believe in something don't denied their rights of they thoughts of positivity. One of the secrets of living in Soft Time is to follow our energy and reconnect the God within us. We are meant to grow through joy, live in harmony with our deep self, follow your heart, to trust your intuition and Enjoying the journey is what matters. Spend your time wisely, knowing it is precious.

Simplify your Life Our ego-self tries to kid us that happiness lies 'out there' in success, wealth, power, possessions or romance. Deep down, we all know that this isn't true, yet most of us have been seduced by the false promises of Hard Time - working harder, buying more, aiming higher and taking on even more commitments. We end up juggling so many demands and roles that it is impossible to relax and enjoy life. Enough is Enough letting go of clutter and details which weigh us down, and being much more choosy about how we spend our time and money. When our outer world is simpler, our inner world of thoughts and feelings tends to be simpler too and (as I know from my own experience) with a slower pace of life, it becomes easier to see what really matters, and to enjoy the simple pleasure of life. If you feel an inner pull towards simplicity, grab a pen and paper, and 'go within' ; then ask your higher wisdom: 'What do I need to do to simplify my lif...

Talking to the Self When you talk to yourself in your mind, which self do you address? And how? Usually people do not talk to their divinity, but to the most superficial aspects of their everyday personality. And often it's a stream of fears, complaints and a mindless chant of old things. If we talked that way to another human being, we would have to apologise. Learning to talk properly to the self is a spiritual effort. Thoughts from the past and worries about the future do not create good conversation. Instead learn to talk to your mind as if it were a child. Talk to it with love. If you just force a child to sit down, he won't. A good mother knows how to prompt her child into doing what she wants. Be good mother to your mind, teach it good, positive thoughts so that when you tell it to sit quietly, it will. Love your mind, Stay Happy.

Mothers/Pregnancy Babies need the warm touch and unconditional love of a real live person. Infant who is held "in arms" is in state of bliss, for woman, pregnancy, childbirth and early motherhood can and should be a mystical experience - a blissful time of merging into oneness, breaking down the boundaries of "I-and-not-I", as we merge with our baby's growing body-mind and are no longer "alone" in the world.  In 'First-world' cultures, a mother generally keeps her baby close to her body for many months after birth - day and night - while she carries on with her routine as usual, until the baby initiates separation from the mother by starting to crawl. Then she remains within easy reach for her wandering and exploring infant, still nursing on demand for two to four years, and giving help only when required. (Their babies almost never cry; and their children seem to grow up joyful and self-reliant, and rarely argue or fight.) In '...

Signs that you are in Soft Time cycle: • Feeling Happy and fulfilled. • Living in the moment. • Being open and heart-centered. • Inner peace and harmony. • Loving yourself and others. • Joy, delight and cool. • Child-like playfulness. • Being highly creative and productive. • Effortless concentration. • Work feeling like play. • Following your energy. • Feeling energised by life. • Attracting 'good luck'. • Being in the 'right place at the right time'. • Clarity of higher purpose. • Receiving clear inner guidance. • Trusting your inner wisdom. • Focusing on what really matters to you. • Seeing the 'bigger picture' of your life. • Sense of complete freedom - anything is possible. • Expanded or mystical awareness. • Honouring your emotions  • Being spontaneous and uninhibited. • Enjoying the 'simple pleasures' of life. • Solving problems with ease. • Life feeling easy and effortless. • Feeling at one with your body. • Enjoying silence and solitude. • Natur...

Wild and Free Soft Time is like sinking our hand into the wet brown clay of a spinning potter's wheel. It gently  reaches deep down into our roots, our core, our very soul. Today on motorbike I saw baby water monitor it was trying to avoid cars and curious with vehicles passing by just gazing at this living creature i experience uncondition love and care for this little guy and its cuteness. (Hard Time mind would have barely noticed it - identify it under 'animal', then ignoring it) Living in soft time feel vibrantly alive, reconnecting with our bodies, with nature, feel complete right down to the tips of our fingers and toes and connect deeply with our soul. We need to reclaim our wildness. This does not mean going crazy or losing control. It mean reconnecting with our intuitive psyche, our wise, knowing self, our heart-self at gut level what we long for, what we need to do and when - the part of our self which is still connected with the Oneness. In olden time...

Parenting (Part 2) Hard Time cycle vs Soft Time cycle Soft Time Living in the moment is feeling happy and carefree. There are no worries or concerns; no thoughts of past or future, no goal and no purpose. There is just the eternal now. When we're in Soft Time, we might feel intense joy at catching a falling leaf, hearing a child laugh or stroking the mossy bark of a tree and simple things in life that we see past it before. We feel whole, complete and connected. Our mind is peaceful and still. There is no desire to search, to act, to do. Soft Time is 'recreation' in its true sense - become oneness with nature. Once we follow our energy it become easy to move back into action to the next step that's Flow Time. Flow Time is part of Soft Time Once your intuitively 'know' what choices to make, or action to take and the timing feels right - we move into the active phase of the Soft Time cycle. When you're in Flow Time, everything seems easy and effortless, no inn...

Human Body Can teach us alot many doctors and scientist still learning but there is a message in our body how it function can tell us how to uncover true happiness, peace, true love, harmony, helping each others and many more influence we can learn. Imagine all people in our planet is working Together in Harmony just like our body design by Divine Energy. Every details from Red Blood Cells, White Blood Cells, sending signals for movement of our body, removing carbon from lung distribute air, pumps our heart (using the right ventricle and left  artrium), Diaphragm help draw air into lungs push out air, liver produce bile help regulate blood also produce plasma proteins, Kidney eliminate waste and many other organs that help each other to protect itself from toxic in the air, food we eat, water we drink and element that touches our skins.  If people on this earth does the same function Working Together in Harmony wouldnt Our Planet be heavenly. Our body doesn't compete with each...

Irritating We feel that some of human behavior irritated us and we take away our own inner peace by forcusing our mind-set on things people do or behave. Ex: A family walk in movie theatre with snack and make alot of noise your peace of mind is still at peace but you choose to look at them and starting thinking negative blaming them for disturbing you. But the truth is that we should control our mind not to wonder off finding trouble for us. When we act on other people behavior we deplead our inner peace and make us unhappy.  Dont let your mind-set take over and steal your inner peace. The moment your thought start to point blame on others behavior talk to yourself change your forcus on positive thought or put yourself in they place if you were excited to watch movie with some snacks so can others as well.

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Thank you Grey Hair Why you say well here goes: When you are enjoying being who you are. People will walk up to you by giving you fear try to tame you by these question. You will not look beautiful What will people think It looks ugly  You are not allow to go out looking like this After this many might feel low and depress but if you have positive mindset would let it go and can learn from this experience that people will always have opinion about your looks but always remember; its not about you, Is they sanskar(morals) can only see beauty outside not from within. The movement we understand this we would laugh at their comment cause you know what is real beauty.  Don't let other take away your positive mindset. Your choice to give-in to fear. But if you still need to cover your grey hair it should be your decision not what others say or demand from you.

Becoming Adult Our Parent, Family and Teachers never taught us how to have peace of mind, positive mindset, see beauty in everything, happy with little things, gratitude, kindness, Uncondition Love and forgiveness. Imagine if we were taught these at Home, School, University and Work Place our life would be totally at peace and Paradise. Bitter truth is that once we become adults we have programe our mindset to negative thoughts for others and for our self by holding on to the hurtful words of others. We automatically get depress with what others say about us or trying so bad to fit in with others forgetting our own will of happiness. Wanting approval and love from others instead of loving yourself and approve ourselves.

Innocent playing games with family Can turn out to take away their self-esteem. Playing by teasing, competition, point out false and behavior is all fun & laughter but later turn into anger, controlling, shaming and misbehaving. All because of playing with autopilot thoughts; allowing mind to do shaming, blaming, controlling if only we were conscious of what our thought are saying to us and acting on it. If we took control of our thought be alert what is creating and not let it do thing or saying things that will end up making us upset(angry) and blaming other of our doing.

Make a Happy List In order to focus on the positive, try making a list of all the good things in your life. This might seem difficult at first, but you can always ask friends and family for help. The list could be made up of personal or general points, for example "I am healthy", or "My family is supportive". This is something you can pin in a prominent place to remind you of the good around you when negativity seems to be creeping in.

Lost and Found Being lost in thought, thinking about things to do, what's been done, what could have been done... is not only tiring but also a brilliant way to waste energy. It diminishes your peacefulness and clouds your clarity. Every time you become lost in thought it means exactly that - you are lost! To find yourself, allow your mind to become quiet, to become utterly tranquil. In the quiet depths of every being, there is a stillness that contains a deep inner peace and wisdom that can guide you in your life.

How is our Karma Created? Allow your mind to slow down, do not judge your thoughts as good or bad, accept them and let them go. There are so many external crisis. There is nothing you can do about that. But the crisis you create in your own mind, at least put a stop to that. When you build a house, every brick counts. When you build a character, every thought counts. You are what you think. Love, purity, peace, wisdom - the more think of these qualities, the more you will become them. Our thoughts, words and action are the energy we send to people it forms our KARMA. Situation and people's behavior towards us, are the energies on the return, which we call our DESTINY. We misuse our freewill and create our misfortunes. Its not the will of God, to give us pain. God gives us knowledge and power to face consequences of our karma. Its upto us to create GOOD KARMA.

Normal or Abnormal Life Everyone believe getting angry or making a big deal out of emotional is normal. But if other choose to not make a big deal is abnormal "What is your thought try to say?" Getting angry is normal is ok to make it big deal.  If your definition of normal is to get angry, upset, stress, worry, desire, blaming, guilt and hate. Then abnormal are those who chooses to be happy, patient, calm, minimalist, laugh at stressful time, play instead of worry, smile and hug when their are happy. I would rather be Abnormal.  If we all start to accept the out come of bad things is normal then it become our reality and would be hard to change our mindset since we strongly believe in hard time rather then soft time.

Gossip Is it Healthy or Non Healthy Did you know when gossip about other we are depleting our own energy and disconnecting us from the source (God). Because when we gossip we taking in other people trash into our own mind. Since the source (God) only dwell in peaceful & pure mind when we bring in trash into our mind it doesn't become pure so God moves out. Why people write quotes about Gossip but till now nobody understand the real reason why we shouldn't gossip. I have confronted many people in my life about this matter their all seem to make excuses saying that "we are just giving or passing information not really gossiping".  Just try this experiment on yourself after Gossip .... write down what are you feeling at the very moment ... did it trigger: Anger, Fear, Doubt, Love, Joy, Laughter and how long did it stay with you. By gossiping we also add it into our karma which create our destiny. Now you can't blame your karma since we all create that...

Love  Chapter 1 Long time ago I never met Love I didnt know it exist or what it was. Until one day i found a book about Love, I was inspire i look everywhere  Up, down, Side and hidden space I was unable to fine it. My soul partner told me it doesnt exist "Love" I was sad again, but then i wanted to be positive so i hold on to "Love" to prove everyone that LOVE EXIST. After many year when by tried Vipassana, Eye Open Meditation, Kundalini, Read more books and Finally out of the blue during my Meditation I FOUND LOVE. Is more then i could handle i cried i cried cried non-stop for everyone here in earth. You me and all of us we have forgotten LOVE that's why we were all missing this LOVE POWER in our heart we were all looking at the wrong place. LOVE IS IN US ALL BUT WE WERE ALL BLIDE BY Materials things Self-fish Racing with each other Aiming to be better then other Not sharing (we teach kids to share, but we do the opposite) IF ALL DO THIS WE WOULD FINE LOVE: Sh...

Practical Suggestions 1. Choose a problem or issue in your life or a dream that has not yet come true. What are your usual thoughts about this? Talk to yourself about it.and notice how it makes you feel.  This indicates your current vibrational state on that topic. If it feels wonderful, you are moving fast towards what you want. If not, you have some work to do. 2. Every time you choose happiness and joy, rather than trying to be 'good', you are allowing your energy to flow freely. Choose thoughts that feel joy, Choose actions that feel joy. Only say 'Yes' to others when your mind and soul is willing to good not being force to do.  3. Accept people as there are is their behavior/morals once you have this concept of understand that we all human have different attitude and they act out base on the thoughts before re-checking their thoughts. Dont try to correct them or find false cause we are surppose to face challenge not try to change others. It is only when you accept ...

Attention all parents You need to: Retrack, Rethink, New Believe systems, strong will to face challenges and apply unconditional Love. Before we pursue any aim in life we needed to learn and pratice that line of work. But we neglected to learn or practice our behavior, mindset and face challenges in our parenting skills. Most of us were raised by parents who themselves grew up with 'shaming' as a method of controlling their children. Even if our parents are kind and loving, we soon get the message of conditional love: that is, you will receive love and approval "as long as you behave as we want you to". Few parents realise that their children's behaviour is largely provoke by their vibrations. When we are happy, relaxed and positive; our children tent to be happy, relaxed and positive. When we are disconnected, we tend to disconnect them. Yet instead of taking responsibility for what we evoke from our children, and for our own reaction, we try to control our w...

Personality Create Destiny Every thought is creating our destiny. Are you checking your thought is it positive or negative. If you have negative thought for others also effect our body, mind and future.  Worry Doubt Problem Blame When we face problem or people our mind will automatically create wrong thought that will try to prevent you to face your challenges, Its not healthy for your mental health.   Wrong thoughts can be cause by something small it will make you over think and cause a fight.

Alcohol 🍷🍸🍹🍺🍻🥂 1 glass nothing much 2 glass something happenning🦚 3 glass i can fly 🦅 The movement you stop and let the alcohol do its work you dont really need more then 2 glass of alcohol. Your head go spinning 🌪 Your mind is relax but spinning as well🧎‍♀️🌪 Your heart become clam for once.🥰 Your thought dont want to talk anymore or listen. Wish in real life we could master the art to control our mind, heart & thought just like alcohol. Power of alcohol is good but if only people knew how to use alcohol for right reason. Not just to get drunk. Alcohol remind our mind that we should face problem like a child fun 🤸‍♀️, excitement 🥳& funny🤪.

Don't go crazy after Actor/Actress that you see on TV.  We are also Actor/Actress but in real life the best part is we get to choose our own role and dialog and even get to direct our own life. Is up to us what kind of role we like to play. The only different is that Actor/Actress on TV get awards like trofy but we get the best awards that's good value.  Is all up to us if we choose to play good or bad, nobody write our line we get to do that too!! We are master of our own play. You can be the best directer or the worst directer.

We human were not born to run after money but we were all taught that at very young age by our: ● Parents ● Teachers ● Neighbour ● Grandparents ● Professors ● Relatives ● Media ● Celebrities ● Last our own Friend Imagine a new born child sitting next to you right now new empty brain what would you teach her or him. We never think that once we have child we as parents have big part to play as leader and have power to create a better human by what we can speak or teach to this new born child that has no clue or ideas what out there and is listening to our every words to guide them as well our action the child is looking at us like when we watch movies. He is studying our every moves. We were taught in school that we all  should become something and make money from it (work for money) But the truth is if our teacher has taught us to become doctor to help them or guide the new generation how to be kind. We would have been a better person. If only the teacher have told us the real truth...