Appreciation

 Appreciate

When we receive gift or things from people they have lots of expectation of wanting appreciation which can have negative side effect cause our happiness is dependent on what we get from others. When we want happiness but we do it out of wanting appreciation then its never really out of love. Many people misunderstand the meaning of love when its combine with expectation. 

Doing and being comes into view when we being love we do everything out of love we get or not get appreciation it doesn't matter to the giver, but the moment we start doing for appreciation it isn't love. Intention maybe love but doing out of wanting something in return. 

First check your intention of your doing anything if its out of wanting something in return then don't do it. When doing anything for anyone tell yourself am doing this for me:

 "I love giving" 

"If they don't appreciate its ok too" 

"as long as they are using it that means they love it" 

"my happiness is not dependent on other appreciation" 

"my happiness is not dependent on they word of thankyou"