First priority is within

Don't wait  ... let's imagine you want to give flower to your family (Flower = Love) Have a Garden in your Mind but you never took time to take care of the garden in your mind to grow all beautiful flowers 💐to give and share them with ur family but instead u just give them empty bouquet with no flowers in them the result would be no peaceful, happiness would turn into emptiness, love will also feel fake and laughing will be looking for in media instead with each other.

Now You started notice that the garden you neglected had all kinds of weeds took roots it's full of unpleasant plants with thorns, some flower stick to your clothes wouldn't let go also hurt it tichy as well. U started taking out the thorns but it hurts your name & you fall down to cry cause nobody wants to give you helping hand to clean your garden (mindset - Thoughts).

Your first priority should always be you meaning take care of your mindset with mindfulness practice, self talk, meditation & exercise.