Why do we crave Love

 Why do we crave 😋💓Love?

            I was in search of the real meaning of Love. Was looking for Love like I have experience this blissful feeling before but I am unable to find it here, wanted to understand what is love really and how to love correctly that doesn't bring pain like everyone else is experiencing. 

        Till today I still have memories of what Love should be like I was introvert I never dare share my feeling cause scared God like people would and society would crush the love I have for the world, people and nature around me. I only wanted to see good in people I have this believe system since childhood that nobody was born to be bad there wasn't bad or good in Love Language for me. Slowly I grew up observe people around me they behavior taught me there didn't know how to love hoping there was school that teach how to love sadly that kind of school is not available. 😂 What was I thinking back then. 

           From my long lost memory of Love is Freedom of being who you are, like the way bird does "raise the young once until they come of age to build there own nest and explore the world" the same way in human way of life set them free. Love has be tainted with Shaming, Blaming, Condition, Controlling, Obeying, Ordering, Taming, Fake, Not feeling safe around God like figure (Parents). If the world outside is so bad why does the parent also give the same bad feeling to their young ones. 

           After many year of research using myself as experiment talking to random guys online I learn a lot what do people crave for is it love or body desire?. Then why do they still feel empty on the inside keep going back for more of body desire and then come back feeling empty, miserable, depress, anxiety, sadness, loneliness, frustrated and needy. Love is not sex but communication, sharing experience of life, passion, interest, goal, enjoying the world together, help each other to get to there goals, taking responsibility of there own created thoughts by being honest and open about there feeling, desire and wanting (no expectation). When one have open communication with honesty there is nothing to hide and also feeling safe that the person wouldn't use the information to attack their own partner just to provoke them to start a war that will break the relationship. 

          But to have this kind of Fun, carefree, mature relationship one must Master the self and Master the love for themselves then they can have this Blissful relationship with their life partner. Your first Priority should be You, Source, Goal & People. Start with Mindfulness practice, journal writing of your feeling and thought process, Talk to the Source of creation, Energy, Divine, God (has many name but all is same), Goal (learn, practice, educate yourself in your mission to accomplish your dream) you got unlimited choices {condition love create limited choices} learn to observe what will bring you blissful feeling not Materials, possession, fame, popularity and what all you achieve on earth {which infect you have to leave it all behind} living in reality.

           Talking to 😇💞Source/Divine is like knowing one self who you really are not this body, not the name given to us by human, not the religion we are born into, not citizen of the country which is also label by human and not the sex also label by human. We have to leave all that behind as well then what is left  our soul/energy/atom/spirit what ever label you may give what ever different meaning you give it still means the same thing out of body experience.  Sharing 💬💭💞your deepest desire, likes and dislike to the source/divine don't have to worry he doesn't use it against you or shame or blame or tame or gossip about you instead he only give you Ocean of knowledge of wisdom how to apply it in your daily life to face all your obstacles and challenges that you face in your journey.