Dream vs. Illusion

Dream world is so wonderful it fulfilled what I desire, but once am awake the reality seem like a dream again full of pain and no privacy.

Dream world it a wonderland that I like to visit everyday of the week, but always distracted by responsibility in family.

Being awake made me realise this all is just a illusion we can choose to make different illusion if we weren't too afraid to create dream into reality. 

Am making my dream into reality 😌 illusion watch out I will not be mislead by you. 

Wedding

Wedding is the time of two couple that have fall in love and want to share they love story with people around them. They have a vision how they wedding party should be dance, dress, decoration and pictures. Falling love is out of the picture cause everyone focus on the picture perfect. If they didn't have audience then not needed picture perfect casual all are relax having a good time and both loving couple could relax as well. 

Relative that come to party all dress up to impress other people and picture should come out perfect forgetting we are they to bless the newly wed couples. Wearing uncomfortable shoes, dress just so to make other people like us. What has wedding party comes to, in the end people will criticise others heights, figure, limited seatings, foods and on top paid lots of money for the party but instead of getting blessing People talk behind they back. Full of fake loving people if we only focus more on sharing love and let people wear they casual clothes not needed competition on best looking fashion clothes. 

Peer's pressure is the cause of provoking our demon and taking it out on our love onces. 

Seed of Peace If we plant a positive, clean seed of thought and concentrate on it, we give it energy, like the sun gives to a seed in the earth. And as the seed in the earth awakens, stirs and begins to grow, the thoughts on which we concentrate awaken, stir and begin to grow. So let us sow positive thoughts. Each morning before we begin the journey of the day let us sit still, in silence, and sow the seed of peace. Peace is harmony and balance. Peace is freedom from the burden of negativity and wastefulness. Let peace find its home within us. Peace is our original strength, our eternal tranquility of being

Nurture Nature

Many a philosophical debate arrives at the bottom line - are we naturally the way we are or is it nurtured? Are we all pure in heart, but blinded by the impurities of the world? Are we all enlightened souls who have simply succumbed to illusion?

Most of us have an intuitive response which seems to acknowledge that there is goodness in everyone, it's simply sometimes hard to see. As we look at ourselves maybe we even find it hard to see the good in ourselves. Perhaps we've been taught to see only the dark, the negative. Perhaps we grew up with others whose vision always landed on the negative. But who would choose to live in the darkness? Who would choose to be a negative person? Who would choose pessimism? Probably very, very few, if only we could see the choice. That's why it is essential you find the good, however small within yourself, tend to it, nurture it, nourish it - just as you would the plants in your garden.

When you focus on the good, the positive within yourself, you give it life, you give it permission to grow and to be restored to your nature. The good has been there all along, simply out of your inner sight, out of your awareness. Some say 'get a life' but this is how to give a life. This is how to give life back to yourself! Or do you prefer to live in the dark

Normal or Abnormal

This is normal that what people around me keep saying.

Normal

1. Blaming

      Blame someone for our own unhappiness or sadness or someone didn't do the task.

2. Fighting 

      Fine false in somebody so that can take out anger to the other people to realise frustrated. 

3. Talk about the third person

       Talk about someone else that is not our business to tell or it doesn't help us or improve our life for the better.

4. What will people say or think

        Care for society that never live with us, help us in our work, but just giving opinion how we should act or behave, demand respect, do as u are told and never walk out of line.

5. Wanting and Expectation

       Didnt full fill Expectation will get judgement, blackmail, comparing, controlling, demanding and abusive.

6. Finding peace outside and focus on bad outcome in life.

7. Practice wanting love, controlling others and do sewa with expectation.

8. Charge battery with watching news, social media, want update information of others and watch drama, violence, abusive, politics, etc. 

Abnormal

1. Take responsibility of they own mistake

2. Agree to disagree (Letting go and forget)

3. Dont care about information of others

4. Doing out of love and leave the rest.

5. Accept people as they are no need to change.

6. Have inner peace and optimistic with life.

7. Practice self-love, self-control, sewa with pure intension. 

8. Charge battery with Meditation everyday.

Is your life Normal or Abnormal ?

Trust Yourself

Trust Yourself

 Parenting (Part 19)

The age of gurus is coming to an end, it's no longer appropriate for us to turn to priests, seers and other external guides for advice about what to do, or to put others on pedestals and project our wisdom on to them. It is time to trust our own inner guidance, our deep self. Trust the fleeting inner impression which most of us ignore or dismiss. If we trust our inner wisdom, we know everything we need to know. To activate the inner wisdom is by meditation on empty stomach early morning and to be able to control your inner thoughts best time meditation is at 3am with this we will intuitively know what we need to do next, in any area of our lives. When we trust ourselves, life becomes far more magical. 

If we take a leap of faith following our hearts, 'knowing' it is the right step to take the Universe says "Yes, Yes, Yes!" If we are willing to let go and to change, to close one door before the next door opens. We have to live in 'the void' for a while unsure of our next steps, giving ourselves lots of space and being-time, learning to live with our uncertainty. We often know only what our next step will be so, we must be willing to take one step at a time, trusting that further guidance will follow. But the rewards that come from trusting our inner guidance can be truly amazing. 

I trust my inner voice.

Listen to the Voice of Love 👂❤

Parenting (Part 18)

Listen to the Voice of Love, Not Fear

In every situation, we can listen to the voice of love or the voice of fear. The voice of love, the voice of our deep self, connects us with the greater reality of Oneness. It knows that everything 'out there' is an aspect of the self, and that the universe is friendly and loving. It is the 'still small voice within'. It encourages us to grow, to expand, to reach out, to believe in miracles, to follow our Dreams. (The world may be filled with ego-selves, it can also warn us about potential dangers, ensuring we are not in the wrong place at the wrong time.)

Don't squash your fears down, since whatever we resist persists. Become aware of your fears without identifying with them - and send love to that fearful part of yourself. When you have fearful thought or slip into a 'thought attack', smile and call light to yourself - and choose loving, positive thoughts instead.

Visualize what you're afraid of and see yourself coping with it. That way, you won't have to make it happen!

Recognize that it has already happened. Many fears such as that of dying in childbirth, losing a child or partner, going blind, falling from a great height, losing your house in a fire - date back to past lifetimes. Relax and ask your deep self to show you what happened in that other lifetime; then reassure yourself that this lifetime is different, and your fear belongs to the past.

Imagine releasing fear and doubt in long slow out breaths, while breathing in the light of love and trust with each breath. Or imagine fear and doubt draining away each time you pull out the plug in your bath.

Anything which lifts your energy, raises your spirits, relaxes or inspires you will help you listen to the voice of love. Simply ask yourself: 'What is the voice of fear telling me in this situation? And What does the voice of love have to say?