💖 What Is Love That Doesn’t Hurt?

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Love that causes suffering is not true love. It’s attachment, craving, or control disguised as love.


True love is freedom. When you love someone, you don’t try to own or change them. You support their growth—even if it means letting go.


Love is not about getting. It’s about giving without expectation. If you love only to be loved back, you’re setting yourself up for pain.


🧘‍♂️ Love as Inner Practice

🫵🏼Before loving others, love yourself wisely. Not in a selfish way, but with awareness and care.


🫵🏼Don’t let your happiness depend on someone else’s behavior. That’s emotional dependency, not love.


🫵🏼Train your mind to be full, not hungry. A full heart gives. A hungry heart clings.


🛑 Common Misunderstandings About Love


💞Misunderstood Love → True Love


💞“You complete me” → “I am whole, and I share my wholeness”


💞“I can’t live without you” → “I wish you well, even if we part”


💞“You must love me back” → “I love you, even if you don’t return it”


🕊 Letting Go Is Not Losing

Letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving. It means you stop clinging.


If someone walks away, bless them. Don’t curse them or yourself. Love remains, even in absence.


The more you try to control love, the more it slips away. But when you release control, love becomes light and enduring.


🧠 Final Reflection

“Love is not about finding the right person. It’s about being the right person.”


Credit: 🙏🏼Phra Maha Wuthichai🙏🏼

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