🌟 The Courage to Speak Love Without Fear

💌 This is the letter I would be sending to my loved ones

💔 You have become a horrible obsession—the silence and the words left unsaid weigh heavier than anything spoken. When love is expressed through anger, defensiveness, or provocation, it only pushes me further away. ✨ Restraint is more valuable than heated words, because harsh words wound deeper than they heal.

🔥 I also had horrible obsession. I found how to destroy it by not believing it, by speaking my truth, and by silencing myself from acting on what it says. 🚍 I let it pass by like a bus that isn’t my number. I only speak what resonates with my heart—peace, love, and care. 💖

🤲 Affection cannot be demanded or begged—it is earned when I feel safe in your presence and truly seen by you.

❤️ I want you to know: I have always been sharing love. Nobody had to earn my love, because I share it easily. What must be earned is trust. 🤝 Trust comes when I know I will not be attacked when strong emotions rise or blame is placed on me. You may say you have changed, but trust knows the difference between what is real and what is true.

🌱 True love will always recognize true love; ego will only see another ego. I too have ego—I keep killing it daily, because it rises again and speaks its truth: that ego still lives in those who mistake ego for love, or fail to see ego as a block, a cage. 🕊 Why would ego beg for love? If ego were truly giving love, wouldn’t it make you feel content inside?

💤 The love inside is still asleep. What many call love is ego. Until ego is destroyed, it consumes, and true love cannot be experienced. True love is not about begging for companionship, attention, or affection.

⚖️ Here is the hard truth: stop begging. Nobody can give love—love is only shared. Those who ‘give’ love are giving ego, not love. Ego grows quickly, but real love takes time. It begins with trust in yourself, with listening to yourself, not seeking it outside. Only when you let go of ego and face the pain of expectation will you meet unconditional love face to face.

🌸 And now you may know the truth: I will still be sharing love, even as I hold the desire to leave—to give peace, and to let you love someone you can choose freely, without the need or help of parents to choose for you. I want the same freedom: to choose my own life partner who matches my energy, someone who does not have to change themselves to fit with me.

🌞 My goal is to see you happy with what or who you choose to spend your lifetime with. But that person is not me. I cannot see myself in a future with you—I can only see myself dying there.

🌹 Last note: True love will not control another’s life. It will not tell them what they should or shouldn’t do. It will not stop them. True love desires freedom and delights in seeing the other person happy. 🕊 Ego, on the other hand, clings. It does not want to let go. It fears losing its own happiness and so it cages others. Ego was never giving love—it was only giving flawed love, love filled with fear.

💬 Reflection for Members

🪞 What truth would you speak to your loved ones if you dared?

✍️ Are you willing to write your own letter of truth?

🔥 What ego or obsession habits do you need to destroy daily so love can flow freely?