Heart Growing

🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊 6 Reasons to stop Venting and start regulation, reflection, and forward movement 1. Venting Reinforce negative neural pathways, neural plasticity means that the more you talk about a problem in a negative way, the more you strengthen the brain circuits associated with that problem, and over time, you're hard-wiring yourself into a habit of helplessness. 2. Repeated Venting increases emotional reactivity, expressing anger or frustration repeatedly without resolution amplifies emotional intensity without ever releasing it. This keeps your nervous system on high alert, which means you're stressed out all the time, and it's because you're venting all the time.  3. Venting can damage relationships frequent venting is correlated with decreased relational satisfaction, it put emotional strain on the listener and they'll feel drained burdened or helpless especially when they can't fix anything give the people around you a break. 4. Venting i...

Being a wife is not a job Being a girlfriend is not a job Being a mother is not a job Being myself is not a job It's really isn't.  I just gotta be myself. Keep evolving myself. Was I contradicting myself? Do you contradict yourself?

Sometimes people leave even when they're alive. And you can't be with people who are dead.  Both situations leave an empty space, but they're totally different. Even if you end up never seeing someone again,  Simply knowing they're alive somewhere is enough.

The soul, pure and boundless, exists in a state of knowing, carrying the essence of home within itself. However, once it enters a physical body, it experiences yearning—a deep longing to reconnect with its true nature. The material world, with its comforts and distractions, presents illusions of fulfillment, creating a test for the soul’s ability to remember its truth. In this journey, the body consciousness and external influences attempt to pull the soul away, tempting it to forget. The Creator, the divine force overseeing this process, allows the soul to navigate confusion, testing its willpower and loyalty to truth. The challenge is not simply avoiding distractions but learning from them, recognizing them as steps in the path toward evolution. Souls are interconnected, forming a collective journey. Each lifetime offers lessons, and upon returning, the cycle of forgetting begins again. However, wisdom gained in past lives is not lost—it is carried forward through good de...

I never liked these sentences  "Can you do it?" "Wouldn't you feel tired?" "Would you have the stamina to go?" I request the person by saying that  Can you use these sentences only when I am in a wheelchair? The person replied, saying, "Noted."  Somehow I felt the person respond to be cold cause of our history that we were never close or connected, there was always distance between us, it was the person who put up the wall.  The person didn't acknowledge the word I use "wheelchair" it tell a lot about the person who wanted to connect who doesn't.  I am proud of myself while at the same time heart broken (two feeling at once)

We all make mistakes—whether it's watching something we regret or giving in to a habit we want to change. But who says we can’t release our pain through tears? The secret to strong willpower is knowing that after the rain comes the rainbow. 🌈 Whenever I make a mistake, I cry it out in a safe space, embracing the divine ✨ energy around me. After my tears fall, I feel strength within, whispering that I can move forward now. Can you imagine a world without rain? Your tears are like rain—why hold them in? Is it because of fear? Fear of being told you’re not strong, not a “real” man? 🤔 Why let anyone define what it means to be human? Suppressing tears is like rejecting yourself. Your body doesn’t lie—it carries the pain until it finds release. Holding emotions in only makes them surface in unexpected ways. Crying is not weakness; it is healing. And if anyone sees you crying and tries to shame you, ask them: "Can you imagine living in a place without rain?" 🌧

Growing up in school, I often found myself gazing out the window, daydreaming instead of focusing on lessons. The world outside seemed far more intriguing than the structured environment within four walls. My teachers constantly scolded me for not paying attention, but the truth was, I was paying attention—just not to what they expected. Then, when I entered the workforce, everything changed. I became fully engaged, eager to learn, improve, and embrace challenges. While others complained about the difficulties of their jobs, I thrived. I never understood why they dreaded their work, especially when compared to school, which had felt rigid and uninspiring. Traditional education often emphasizes memorization and structured understanding from books, but I discovered that I learn best through doing rather than simply remembering. And that made all the difference. Over time, I noticed a pattern: Many people, despite earning degrees and finishing school, lose their enthusiasm for learning wh...