Heart Growing

Everyone I see is part of Me It is easier to see other people than to see ourselves, so the Universe helpfully sends us people who mirror what we need to love and accept in ourselves, or who are facing issues which we need to resolve - whether it is our partner, friends, relatives, children, colleagues or clients. Sometimes the most painful lessons are the most transforming, simply because pain is difficult to ignore and often centres on the very issue we've been busily trying to avoid.  Seeing the world as a mirror can be a key to understanding and healing our relationships. Each of us is a holographic fragment of All that is, so whatever we see 'out there' in the world is an aspect of our Self. Whatever qualities we most admire in our heroes and heroines - wisdom, love, courage, creativity, humour, strength - can be found in our own higher Self.  It's impossible to be judge-mental when we remember that everyone is a mirror!

Connect with Inner Self When we were young, we believe that anything is possible, as we grew up, our Hard Time society "teaches" us that fairies are just make-believes, put aside our magical selves, let go of our Dreams.  The truth is that the magical world of Soft Time is real, and lies just a breadth from us. It take only a silent moment of stillness, changing in our mindset, positive thoughts and a heart-felt hug to make the shift. In the pure bliss of Soft Time, we remember that children were right all along: that dreams can and do come true, next time your child believe in something don't denied their rights of they thoughts of positivity. One of the secrets of living in Soft Time is to follow our energy and reconnect the God within us. We are meant to grow through joy, live in harmony with our deep self, follow your heart, to trust your intuition and Enjoying the journey is what matters. Spend your time wisely, knowing it is precious.

Simplify your Life Our ego-self tries to kid us that happiness lies 'out there' in success, wealth, power, possessions or romance. Deep down, we all know that this isn't true, yet most of us have been seduced by the false promises of Hard Time - working harder, buying more, aiming higher and taking on even more commitments. We end up juggling so many demands and roles that it is impossible to relax and enjoy life. Enough is Enough letting go of clutter and details which weigh us down, and being much more choosy about how we spend our time and money. When our outer world is simpler, our inner world of thoughts and feelings tends to be simpler too and (as I know from my own experience) with a slower pace of life, it becomes easier to see what really matters, and to enjoy the simple pleasure of life. If you feel an inner pull towards simplicity, grab a pen and paper, and 'go within' ; then ask your higher wisdom: 'What do I need to do to simplify my lif...

Talking to the Self When you talk to yourself in your mind, which self do you address? And how? Usually people do not talk to their divinity, but to the most superficial aspects of their everyday personality. And often it's a stream of fears, complaints and a mindless chant of old things. If we talked that way to another human being, we would have to apologise. Learning to talk properly to the self is a spiritual effort. Thoughts from the past and worries about the future do not create good conversation. Instead learn to talk to your mind as if it were a child. Talk to it with love. If you just force a child to sit down, he won't. A good mother knows how to prompt her child into doing what she wants. Be good mother to your mind, teach it good, positive thoughts so that when you tell it to sit quietly, it will. Love your mind, Stay Happy.

Mothers/Pregnancy Babies need the warm touch and unconditional love of a real live person. Infant who is held "in arms" is in state of bliss, for woman, pregnancy, childbirth and early motherhood can and should be a mystical experience - a blissful time of merging into oneness, breaking down the boundaries of "I-and-not-I", as we merge with our baby's growing body-mind and are no longer "alone" in the world.  In 'First-world' cultures, a mother generally keeps her baby close to her body for many months after birth - day and night - while she carries on with her routine as usual, until the baby initiates separation from the mother by starting to crawl. Then she remains within easy reach for her wandering and exploring infant, still nursing on demand for two to four years, and giving help only when required. (Their babies almost never cry; and their children seem to grow up joyful and self-reliant, and rarely argue or fight.) In '...

Signs that you are in Soft Time cycle: • Feeling Happy and fulfilled. • Living in the moment. • Being open and heart-centered. • Inner peace and harmony. • Loving yourself and others. • Joy, delight and cool. • Child-like playfulness. • Being highly creative and productive. • Effortless concentration. • Work feeling like play. • Following your energy. • Feeling energised by life. • Attracting 'good luck'. • Being in the 'right place at the right time'. • Clarity of higher purpose. • Receiving clear inner guidance. • Trusting your inner wisdom. • Focusing on what really matters to you. • Seeing the 'bigger picture' of your life. • Sense of complete freedom - anything is possible. • Expanded or mystical awareness. • Honouring your emotions  • Being spontaneous and uninhibited. • Enjoying the 'simple pleasures' of life. • Solving problems with ease. • Life feeling easy and effortless. • Feeling at one with your body. • Enjoying silence and solitude. • Natur...

Wild and Free Soft Time is like sinking our hand into the wet brown clay of a spinning potter's wheel. It gently  reaches deep down into our roots, our core, our very soul. Today on motorbike I saw baby water monitor it was trying to avoid cars and curious with vehicles passing by just gazing at this living creature i experience uncondition love and care for this little guy and its cuteness. (Hard Time mind would have barely noticed it - identify it under 'animal', then ignoring it) Living in soft time feel vibrantly alive, reconnecting with our bodies, with nature, feel complete right down to the tips of our fingers and toes and connect deeply with our soul. We need to reclaim our wildness. This does not mean going crazy or losing control. It mean reconnecting with our intuitive psyche, our wise, knowing self, our heart-self at gut level what we long for, what we need to do and when - the part of our self which is still connected with the Oneness. In olden time...