Heart Growing

Nurture Nature Many a philosophical debate arrives at the bottom line - are we naturally the way we are or is it nurtured? Are we all pure in heart, but blinded by the impurities of the world? Are we all enlightened souls who have simply succumbed to illusion? Most of us have an intuitive response which seems to acknowledge that there is goodness in everyone, it's simply sometimes hard to see. As we look at ourselves maybe we even find it hard to see the good in ourselves. Perhaps we've been taught to see only the dark, the negative. Perhaps we grew up with others whose vision always landed on the negative. But who would choose to live in the darkness? Who would choose to be a negative person? Who would choose pessimism? Probably very, very few, if only we could see the choice. That's why it is essential you find the good, however small within yourself, tend to it, nurture it, nourish it - just as you would the plants in your garden. When you focus on the good, ...

This is normal that what people around me keep saying. Normal 1. Blaming       Blame someone for our own unhappiness or sadness or someone didn't do the task. 2. Fighting        Fine false in somebody so that can take out anger to the other people to realise frustrated.  3. Talk about the third person        Talk about someone else that is not our business to tell or it doesn't help us or improve our life for the better. 4. What will people say or think         Care for society that never live with us, help us in our work, but just giving opinion how we should act or behave, demand respect, do as u are told and never walk out of line. 5. Wanting and Expectation        Didnt full fill Expectation will get judgement, blackmail, comparing, controlling, demanding and abusive. 6. Finding peace outside and focus on bad outcome in life. 7. Practice wanting love, controlling others an...